baby daddy issues

[ashersmomma]

I'm 18 and expecting my  first (a boy) on sep. 2nd. BD is 31 and jobless, he actually managed to get one and it lasted 3 days!! He hasn't bought a single thing for the baby nor has he gone to any of my healthypregnancy/childbirth/parenting classes hasn't even gone to a checkup with me. When I ask him about it he gets mad and blames my mother and I because she won't drive to pick him up and I can't find another way for  him. He has court soon and he never makes it unless I find a way to get to his place and pay for us both to get to the courthouse and tell him what to say. I love him to pieces but I'm thinking he isn't going to change and I'll have to raise him too. Is it me or is baby daddy ridiculous?!

[scarebear1030]

You mean he's 18, your 31.. u sound more mature! Kick him to the curb relationship wise

[emilyalyssa]

I'm 22 and my baby daddy is 20 and he works 6 days a week in construction. Him and I aren't together, but I can count on him if I need anything at all. He doesn't go to the appointments because he's usually gone with his work. He doesn't have a car and I do so I drive him to and from work while he pays for gas. I understand you may love you, but do you want that influence on your baby? Not trying to sound harsh :/

[mzz_ali]

He needs to grow up! Im 25 and b.d is 20 turning 21. He works overtime everyday 6 days a week so we can  have nice things. And so he can support our family to be. Ive just got a part time job but he prefers I didnt! We live comfortably off his one income but two is gonna make things so much easier!

[lindyJay]

^^^^^ what she said!

[StacyAl]

Sounds to me like he needs a good *** kicking. Honestly

[Fairymary]

Girl ! No! My baby dad may be a little dickhead and may get on my nerves but one thing is for sure I can depend on him if I need to he give to every appt he calls to check up and see how things are he works 6 days a week and talks about how he can't wait to support us .. Your bd needs to grow up he's 31 and you can't baby him anymore ! Let him miss court and go to jail maybe he will realize ! You gotta stop feeding into his pathetic act and make him grow up in his own . You face a little baby who really needs you :) and I hope he growing healthy and in sorry that he has to go through this too ! Keep your head up !

[sexybeast231]

I totally agree just seems like he's trying to free load. like have you and your mom take car if him. if he's 31 he should have a car and definitely a freaking job that makes me so upset I'm sorry you have to go through that girl

[kenyaa]

He's ridiculous and lazy , seem spoiled

[2ndbaby77]

baby daddy is ridiculous!!!!!!! he is 31 and cant get a freaking job??? sounds like he needs to step the freak up or you need to forget him.