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need advice
My step mother reckons my partner should come to my hospital appointments but im not really like that kind of girl and do things on my own and my partner dont like going because its boring amd all they do is check my weight babys heart beat and its even boring for me also, im 30 weeks and a day and i feel bad whem my dad and step mum say he needs to be more involved witch is 100% involved instead of my app witch i rather go on my own anyway i dont mind him not coming and im not going to force him into something he dont want to do, what do i do and say? I feel sorry for my partner hes more of a see it to believe it type and i dont mind that hes done so much for me and bub already, brought everything for him/her and everything bub needs and car seat and everything and hes so excited i just hate how they say that just over it and over them trying to get into my relationship
Yeah my partner always comes to my scans but now its just my hospital app and i dont mind at all he dont come thanks so much ladies i will defnititly say something, i just get frustrated when they try and tell us what to do, my partner knows how it all goes he has four other children to hes forst girlfriend so im grateful that hes enough involved :) thanks heaps girls
I'm the same way. The doctor's appointments are boring for me as well. I've told my boyfriend I am fine with him only coming to the ultrasounds but he chooses to go to all. I say do what you and your partner want. It's your pregnancy
If you both agree to what your currently doing thats both your decision… i think you should both tell your step mum to back off in a nice way… i think it is most important that father of bub was there at your first scan and the gender scan (i know you had them by now) but other than that its your choice :)
Just ignore them my babydaddy doesnt go with me to my appointments either as long as hes their when the baby is born should be more than enough
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