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vent:/ (school)

Im 19 years old and in college im 29 weeks pregnant my next quarter starts in 2 weeks and on tuesdays ill be gone all day:/ & Thursday half the day wen my baby gets here a month b4 the quarter ends im scared that I wont finish bcuz I would want to be with my son all day everyday my boyfiend plays it off likes it nothing and wants his family to watch him like he doesnt understand how it makes me feel the baby will only be a few weeks old I want to be watching him and taking care of him:/its only my job sorry if its long I just need to vent and some advice
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I do and all I get is lectures:/ I love my grandparents but I told them I will be taking the nxt quarter off bcuz its already hard for me thinking of leaving my newborn baby while im at school yea hell be with family but im his mommy its my job to b doing that and thats something them or my bf understands they just see it as "o well my mom can watch him blah blah" it's so frustrating jeka1202
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Se if you can find a school with a nursery so you can spend breaks with you'r bub and still finish school  
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School is important. But so is your baby. Just explain to them how you feel and that you want to bond and enjoy your baby. And promise them you'll go back to school next quarter. Maybe they'll understand
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I have to wait until nxt quarter:/ everyone keeps pressuring me into not takingg it off especially my grandparents bcuz they are paying for me to go to school no matter how much I tell them its wat I want and is best for me they get upset
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I had the same issue with my baby. I chose to stay home until my baby was 4 months.. 1-3 months your baby needs to bond with you! I think you should enjoy your baby. Their small once.. enjoy him! They grow so fast. IN A Blink Of An Eye YOUr Baby Will Be 6 months. If you miss a semester it won't hurt. Just make sure you go back!!!! Good luck hun
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Just a suggestion but I would take off the quarter and start up again after when you feel comfortable leaving the baby with people
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