unsupporting fiance

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I really couldnt come up with a better title, so here it goes. I am 8 weeks pregnant and my fiance more tham ever make me feel insecure about my body. It has been going for about a year that everytime we go out somewhere he checks out blond girls and i kno its normal for guys to look at other girls. But its a constant thing that  he wont stop and he just tells me that he tries to not look but does anyway. Let me put in that i am brunett and he told me that before he met me he only talked to blonde girls!this was recently we habe together for 2 years now. He then tells  me that he tries but he just cant control his hormones telling him to look. Let me make it clear that i dont have a problem with him noticing other girls just the fact that is a constant thing that makes feel disrespected and as if i dont meet his standards. Then last night he goes on to tell me how my vagina going to b. Bigger as if suggesting that its going to be unattractive. Am i just been a drama queen?  He make me feel unbeautiful that we cant go. On a date or to get groceries without this happening. Now that am pregnant it feels as if the support that i need from him emotionally is not there. That he now made that remark about my pregnant body.

[c0rruptted]

Omg. What a jerk. Leave him. He is nasty and if he is unsupportive then he doesn't deserve to be apart of the child's life. He shouldn't be putting you down like that. And if he really loved you, he wouldn't feel the need to be looking at other women cos you'd satisfy all his needs.

[Sareney_beany12]

Tell him he's an a#& hole and that your vagina won't get any bigger. If he does it constantly than something is wrong with him not you

[RockRose]

I'm not quite sure how the two of you got/are together.

You aren't the "type" he prefers and he's a socially clumsy cad.

I don't know how to make this better.  I think a second grader knows not to do/say the things he says to you.

[francisca19]

Wow that is so wrong I know if I was in the situation I woupd not take it that is not healthy what so ever for a guy to say that to a girl is very disrespectful even more that he is getting married to her u dont need that end it fast b4 u get into something u cNt get out of

[dayleyb1]

Honey, seriously. Tell him if it's a blonde he wants then go get one. Give yourself space and I promise he will come running back. He's like and animal testing his luck. He thinks now you are pregnant you are stuck with him. Show him that you are now stronger than ever. Xxx

[bnl0725]

If he truly loved you he wouldn't notice other women. When you love someone they are all that matters and you do your best to build that person up and let them know just how much they mean to you. Sounds like he has a lot of growing up to do. I'm sorry you are being treated like that. I have been in the same situation when I was younger. I hate to tell you this but he probably won't change. You deserve better than that and so does your baby.

[erlie]

I would honestly break off the engagement. Nothing about that seems right. Like I get as couples that no matter what you may find someone else attractive but to compulsively googly eye every blonde you see isn't the same thing..... I'm not saying totally end it but if his hormones are really that bad and that's what he wants or he is just blaming hormones when it is him it really doesn't matter. Maybe try and work it our but if its been like this for a year break off the engagement maybe separate and see how it goes