Boyfriend issues!

[Hayleeyy]

I'm really sick with tonsillitis, I've got a fever, struggling to breath/eat/drink and I'm extremely weak so I have trouble doing a lot, well everything actually. Anyways, I'm 25weeks with twins and I'm really worried but my boyfriend was sick all week and even though I was a huge whale that struggled with everything I took care of him 24/7, now I'm sick he's gone out with friends drinking and his excuse is "I've been home all week"
Is it that bad that he's been home a whole week with me? Seriously? We're about to be parents to twins and his not even here to take care of me while I'm sick. When they're born it's going to be a lot longer then a week I can assure you that.

Other mummies too be have partners like this? Or am I just over-exaggerating?

[Mommy2be_06_03]

That's awful I'm sorry but I've been sick during this pregnancy and I just wanna be babied my bf is okay about it he will make my soup and stuff but he also like to go out and play basketball and do other things it's frustrating cause your sick and pregnant and it takes longer to get healthy and you feel awful all the time he needs to understand that

[Hayleeyy]

He's more then welcome to go out for few beers whenever he feels but the way I'm feeling I really thought he'd want to look after me and instead his priorities are his friends once again

[Sass508]

That would bother me too.. sure he's allowed to go out and have a couple of drinks I suppose, right??
BUT.. you would hope that his priorities would be at home with you. sometimes when guys feel like they can't or they're not allowed to do something it makes them want to do it all the more, which is sad.