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9267525 tn?1410816471

My boyfriend doesn't want to have sex anymore

I'm almost 35 weeks and the reason my boyfriend doesn't want to have sex with me anymore is because I have too much discharge. I salready feel big,  unattractive,  and gross so this just added to my insecurities.  He said after 8 weeks after the baby is born we can, but until then he's just "too grossed out by my vagina" BUT of course he still wants me to give him blow jobs.  ******* that.  This hurts my feelings more than it should.  :(
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You're not alone .. My boyfriend never said he doesn't want to have sex anymore , but he told me that it feels different now , like a plasmetic feeling .. & he always wants **'s also ..  
I'm 39 weeks now.
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I'm really sorry you were told that. That's def not right. & I see why you're upset.  You're doing so much the past 9 months carrying HIS baby & sacrificing so much. I'd tell him no. If he's going to be an a** about it, he can wait like he's making you wait. A real man wouldn't tell you that. & honestly if I were you, that would make me lose my desire to even want to pleasure him.
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Maybe you can ask him to wear a condom. Maybe that will make him feel better with the discharge.  Or get a vibrator.
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What the hell... sorry but just even picturing you 35 weeks pregnant and pleasuring him while you get nothing makes me sick to my stomach! He needs a bullet Im sorry. Bloody jerk.
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My bf loves it ..like mamamiaxmas said he said it feels extra better lol
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8541403 tn?1409425380
Yeah my boyfriend was the same way it was honestly so pathetic I would get so mad at him... it should be insulting if we didn't get wet for them!..
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That's weird. I would think it feels better because its extra wet. Excuse my choice of language
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That would hurt any woman's feelings, so don't feel bad about being upset. He was an a$$ for saying something like that to you and then still expects you to "relieve" him? Ha. If he can make you wait, then make him wake. I'm sure he won't like being turned down. I'm sorry he's being that way though. /:
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I wouldnt give him anything!! Tell him he doesnt clean himself down there and you are too grossed out. What a jerk...
Im sorry
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My bf feels bad that iwont have sex since I'm discharging
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9267525 tn?1410816471
I told him I'd do that but he still doesn't want to
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I clean myself out with vagasil in the shower before sex, i have a lot of discharge too
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