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I have been to emotional

I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years, I am currently 24 weeks and lately I have had problems with him because he has talked to his ex girlfriend. Seriously everything was going so well and something like this always happens. He has done this before where he has talked to some girls on Facebook and doesn't tell me,I end up finding messages or text messages. And then he tells me that he's sorry and will ignore all those girls. But he did it again,&this made me really upset. I have been crying so much and I know it's bad but this really hurts me. I can't trust him anymore and I told him I wouldn't go out with him for a while. I don't know what to do,I love him I really do but I don't want to keep finding things later. I'm sorry I just really needed to get this off my chest.
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Thanks for the advice! I told him that he isn't only hurting me that he is also hurting our baby by doing this stuff, he says he only wants to be with me,I just don't trust him anymore.
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Just know you are not alone vie been extremely emotional and nagging to my boyfriend. He needs to be honest with you. You need to sit down and ask him whether or not he wants to be with u. If he doesn't want to man up and start acting the right way (bc u don't deserve that) then u need to stay strong for u and ur baby. Stand up for yourself and know your worth. Just because you're carrying a baby doesn't mean anything. If you stand strong he will be in shock. :)
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me and my boyfriend have been going through the same thing for the past year.he has done the same things but in a little bit more serious things.i caught him 6 times,at first he says he didnt and makes me to be crazy.but then says sorry and he wont do it again but it always happens.We live together and finally i couldnt take it anymore so i let him see what he would lose.i packed up all my stuff and went to my friends for a few days.he begged me to come back and we sat down and had a deep discussion about how much it hurts me thst he does those things.we have been doing our own therapy techiques that we found online and since he realized we he had lost when i wasnt there he straightned up.he hasnt done it since and things have been better than ever.you both need to just talk about things together.i hope it gets better for you.
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