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My baby daddy live in Columbia Sc for a year and six months together graduated from college his mom didn't approve of his decision to move to new Orleans with me. So him being a mama boy she got in to his head and turn him completely against me and my pregnancy. He was telling me one thing and telling her another. He stop answering the phone and start texting only every since January that has stop. Finds out after four months he has a girlfriend with a kid. But he not here for his own kid that coming into the world. My family tell me all the time stay strong because mad day will come between him and his mom and he will realize what he left and how he left was completely wrong. He will get tired of living like his mom want him to live and living with her then he will grow up and realize thats it not the women its her because she dont have a man andvsge get that through him that why she want him to herself. also they say the pain and hurt I feel now he will feel now that ten time worst and karma will show up and out in his life. Is that true???? Honestly I still care about him and wonder do I cross his mind but the damage is done. My dad told me that relationship most likely won't last because its rebound and don't be surprise when things start going bad in his life that he will call or try to come around then or when baby born. Anyone been through this? I'm a ftm so I need so advice and help asap. Please will he ever come around? For His only son sake?
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Anymore advice. Please
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I am going yo follow through with child support. But do you ladies think he will hurt or have regrets about the decisions he made? Will he ever try to come back?
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I feel your pain stay strong!  
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I agree forget about him he forgot about you n his kid if his with somebody else . In my opinion i would even put child support if his not hitting you up but thats just me
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I think u should forget about him. It may be hard to do but being a single mom is fun!!:) I should know, after all, I am one! Once u have the baby, hire a sitter once and awhile. Go out and have fun!!:) Go to the bar, casino, ANYWHERE!!:) Take my advice. U'll need it!;)
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