Feeling real alone..

Question

Me and my bd/bf broke up a week ago, i havent spoke to him since we broke up, so this is the 8th day without speaking to him. I feel really alone now :( i know hes talking and chatting up heaps of girls cause he ALWAYS did when we broke up previous times. I do not want to get back with him, he effed up BIG time. Cant control his alcohol. I have an AVO on him and he is on a good behaviour bond for what he did. Idk what to do, there is only three weeks left until im due, and i only have two girls i talk to, and im ALWAYS the last msg to be sent, feel so alone. I need someone to talk to:(

kimjarrah · Answer

Im sure there is a man out there for me (even though im totally put off men because of my ex) lol my baby will always come first :) i hope things with your man and yourself gets better!

shantyamore · Answer

Yea u can with the chance to find a new better man....trust me he will try to run back!!! My bd is a financial one but we barely get his time n it hurts I'm close to giving up cause he acts as if I'm a fling or Platonic friend but is constantly saying I miss u love u whenever he's away @ "work"  which isalot and this is our third child he always acts crazy when I get pregnant I love him but I'm not scared to be a single mom even tho it will hurt and take alot of effort .my piece of mind and children are more important

kimjarrah · Answer

Men do my head in. I couldnt believe what he did but yeah i guess everything happens for a reason.. He wasnt financially supportive and i bought everything for our baby.. He doesnt drive and it looked like i was the man in our relationship -.- i held everything together.. He told me at the start he doesnt want to be like his dad and he wants to be there for bub but he has totally gone against his own word.. I kinda feel sorry for him. Hes added heaps of girls on facebook and he would look so desperate trying to talk and see them all.. Like it disgusts me :s hes so immature. Meant to be 19 this year and hes still a bloody kid brain. Whatever im better off without him. I can be a great single mumma.

1992Mama · Answer

Oh man I totally feel ya on the insomnia!!! I have restless leg syndrome and it keeps me awake! And then I get up to pee and can't fall back asleep! Sleep deprivation makes everything seem much worse then it is too!!!!

shantyamore · Answer

Yea I know its easy for someone to say you'll be alright but for some reason men just do a 360 when u get.pregnant I think they are also suffering from hormones .I'm on my 3rd and eachtime my bd has been a ******* or distant I'm so close to letting go instead of letting him act out like I've been doing so.far I hope u feel better! Soon and know every thing good or bad happens for a reason

emilymayy · Answer

Im so sorry.. I got a long story about my so called bf.... I always feel lonely nd feel so down.. Messege me if u like x

kimjarrah · Answer

Lmao sounds like something id cry over! Ive just been really sick with a bad cough and the one side effect from my puffer i get is insomnia, so im in bed from 8-9pm-1-2am and im awake for the rest of the night.. S u c k s so bad :( obviously doesnt help my mood... horrible back pain as well, i just want my little boy already!!! Im 37 weeks tomorrow

1992Mama · Answer

Yeah that would be really hard! I know m hormones are making me so emotional I started crying because my boyfriend told me not to wash his laundry! Lol you just gotta try and keep positive and hope things will turn around! How far along are you?

kimjarrah · Answer

I was feeling really confident and happy afterwoods, being really positive but the last few days i have felt so down :( i know i can do it without him, i am better off without him.. i just think my hormones are playing up:( i guess its hard from seeing someone and talking to someone everyday too nothing at all..

1992Mama · Answer

I'm sorry mama you can talk to me when ever you want! It really ***** that your bd messed up and your not together but I'm sure you'll do just fine without him!