First vent ever.... :-(

[Sammiegirl28]

So I never ever vent about anything. I.try to be very understanding most of the time. Idk if its bc the pregnancy hormones or what but I just need to get this off my chest. I'm 28 weeks, feel huge and sick all the time. I'm not with my babys biological father, but I am with a wonderful man. He had been my best friend for two years and he treats me wonderfully and had already claimed this child as his (biological father signed over his rights). Okay with all that said... My bf joined a ”club” which I wad fine with before. However, now I'm feeling a little sad bc he goes out with his club to bars and strip clubs at least four times a week. I know everyone he is with and I've gone out with them as well twice, but there are sometimes where no women are allowed. I know he doesn't have a choice right now where he goes our how long he is out, and he does text me and tell me everything. For some reason tho being in my third trimester of a very very difficult pregnancy its starting to hit me harder. I love him so much and he had already spent weeks by my side in the hospital, so he's not a bad person ny amy stretch. I think its just the principle...me sitting at home alone on bed rest while he's out. Also knowing there are a lot of things he can't tell me bc its club business. So I guess I'm just stuggling between being supportive and just being a.seven month pregnant women with hormones :-( .

[proudFTMTeTe]

Yea I give u props girl cuz I would b givin my fiance hell if he thought he was finna leave me in da house 4 times a week maybe once a week but strip club with out me is a no no too much goes on in there if I can't go he can't go lbvs but my fiance is very  understandin n only goes hangin wit his friends every blue moon he doesnt like hearin me nag lol

[Riss214]

I would not deal with it. If he's doing that to you while your pregnant what kind of a remodel would that be fllor your child ?

[Beckyboo6023]

Yea I know what ur talking about haha my mom is in one. But if he's gonna be the babies dad is he planning on doing all this after the babies born? I don't think I could handle that... If u can I give u props woman.

[4Nheaven1here]

Like a Motorcycle club?  

[Sammiegirl28]

Its a bike kind of club... Not sure if you ladies know what that is, but he's a prospect. Anyone watch.SOA?

[Beckyboo6023]

I agree with the ladies. I could never let my fiance out to ths strip clubs. What kind of club is this that he joined? And 4 times a week is crazy.

[vrh123]

agreeed, there is no way id be on bedrest && man be ouut partying wether he is the biological father or not when he got in the relationship knowing youu were pregnant he agreed too be there for youu && baby.
&& drinking is nopee in my homee anyways because ouur toddler.
&& strip clubs. nope the only woman he is going too see naked is his wifeee.
or were getting divorced.
goood luck sweeetie.

[4Nheaven1here]

oh honey I'm no one to be giving advice on this subject but let me tell you my situation last year. When I was pregnant with our daughter last year on bed rest for the last trimester I didn't let my husband do anything but go to work and I when he came home from work he would be right by my side. I told him if I have to be on bed rest he had to be by my side because this was a mutual choice that we made and I was like this because of our choice. Now do not take this as advice all men and women are different. there was no way that I was going to be at home miserable on bed rest and him being out having the time of his life oh hell no. Best of luck honey

[XxKitaraxX]

Nope I would cut hubbys baby maker off if he was looking at all that

[mayraaorozcoo]

Tell him to stop going to them and how you feel. The more you keep it in the more it will hurt you

[wishes2891]

Wow four nights a week?  And strip clubs?  You are way more understanding than me! I could put up with one maybe two nights a week out with guys but there's no way I would be ok with strip clubs lol.