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Going thru a lot.

Hi everyone. I'm 16 and pregnant I'm going thru so much At one time my baby's father wants to be in my baby's life but my mother won't let him and my mom doesn't want me around him. My dad died this year in March and I'm 9 months pregnant I'm due November 29 and Nobody has been helping me my whole pregnancy I take myself to the doctor and take care of myself and I bought everything for my baby girl she has everything.. I'm Very smart and No pregnancy isn't something I planned!
How do you feel about your pregnancy.?
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Your a very strong mommy you can do it hun!!! The daddy can be in his baby's life no matter what your mom says when he gets a lawyer he will get 1/2 custody. But she should just let him be around it would make things a lot easier
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Hey girl! I was 16 when I found out I was pregnant. (Turned 17 in August) I'm due Dec 4th! A baby is always exciting no matter if they're planned or not. Having one this young is so hard! I'm sorry you are going through a rough time. Keep your head up! That baby is going to be worth everything in the end. Maybe try to talk to your mom about why she won't let you see the father when he wants to be in the baby's life. I hope everything goes ok! Being a teen mom myself, I understand. It takes a lot of strength and courage to go through with this. Kudos to you! :) <3
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If I were in your shoes I would be very proud of myself. Your doing what a lot of young mothers choose not to or are not ready to step up like that. My mother had me at 15yrs old and she told me it was really hard. Im very sorry about your father.. But Im sure you know deep in your heart hes just as proud of you and you should be for yourself for taking this responability the right way. Mothers can be hard to deal with but let me tell you. In the end its always for a reason. It may not seem like it now but just keep her thoughts in the FAR BACK of your head at the moment. Just stay focused. Your babys almost hear and its deffinatly a game changer. Keep your head up. You deserve it (:
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