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7989976 tn?1403493624

Concerned.

I haven't given my boyfriend head or done much for him in general since I've been pregnant. Now that I'm pregnant, I don't do it at all. It doesn't seem to bother him and he's never complained but it kind of concerns me tbh. I worry that he's going and doing stuff from another girl because I won't. Its not that I don't want to its just I'm always tired and exhausted and I'd rather just cuddle. Am I the only one? Ugh. Any advice?
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7989976 tn?1403493624
I'm 30 weeks. And don't get me wrong, we still have sex quite often yet but thats it and he does most of the work. But I know he really likes when I give him head and I haven't once this whole pregnancy.I feel bad that I can't pleasure him. He doesn't huff about it or complain, he's fine with it though he does get alil irritated after not having sex for a while. I know he's not in it for that but I just feel bad.
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Me too talk with him I had this talk this morning he told me he's not with me for sex n not having sex makes him love n want me more plus he knows in a few weeks or months I will be on attack mode
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4447476 tn?1399396565
Honestly, If he hadn't given any other reason to worry, I wouldn't. My hubby never pushes the issue of anything sexual cause he says he understands that my body is going through some crazy things. Don't get me wrong, he tried.. A lot lol but if things don't happen, he's ok with it. I honestly feel bad for the guy lol before pregnancy, our sex life was AMAZING  even with 3 kids. But now that I'm pregnant, he seems to be very understanding
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How far along are you? Me n my bf didnt do anything almost my whole first trimester bc i just didnt want it and didnt have energy..but now that im in my second trimester it is completely opposite and i cant get enough lol. If he is a good man he will understand that there isnt anything you can do about it and wait. If he cant wait then you deserve better!
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