baby daddy's parents problems....

[Justice_Page]

So I'm about 24 weeks pregnant now and the entire pregnancy his parents have been back and forth on whether they believe me on if its Thomas's baby or not. He's 19 and I'm 17 and in the beginning his parents didn't allow him to see me so I didn't see him for 3 months then his parents warmed up to the idea an I'm now allowed to see him again hut now they are questioning if its his again me and him were both virgins (extremely rare I was so happy!!) When we met and took each others virginity so neither one of us has had sex with anyone but each other. Did anyone else have this problem? Because I really don't want to not be allowed to see him again I couldn't take it this time if it happened... any advice???

[Justice_Page]

Yea I hope so thank you ladies :)

[GordonBaby]

He is an adult (as far as age goes) and can make his own decisions. They can't keep him from you, and if they try it won't last for long. Just keep doing what you have to do for you and baby. Keep him involved, and if they have that much of an issue, offer a DNA test that THEY can pay for if they are THAT concerned (that actually may shut them up). I hate when people (family or not) butt into peoples lives in an irrational way. I understand some concern for their son, but who are they to jump to conclusions and make you out to be some floozy...... My own sons father tried that whole " well maybe its not mine" thing, AFTER I kicked him out....lol, some people deal with what life throws their way in odd manners. Everything will work out : )

[Justice_Page]

Thanks and it'll work out hopefully

[lisaerin86]

My hubby and I were each others firsts too (I was 18 he was 20). Let them think what they want especially since you and daddy know the truth! In the end they will look like the idiots for even thinking that! Good luck momma, sorry you have to deal with this :(

[Justice_Page]

Thanks Imma try its just so irritating because immediately they pin me as some kind of **** and think I've slept with half my school...

[NikiHans]

A similar thing happened with my husband and I when our parents found out I was pregnant with our oldest. We're still together over 9 years later. Keep your head up and try to be kind to them even though they're being so hurtful, they'll come around.