paranoid or right?

[Carissa0411]

Ok i know this is not a baby question but i could really use some advice.so theres this insainly skanky girl that hangs out with my bf and his friends. She just cheated on my bf friend with his other friend.i dont trust her around my bf at all!!! About a week ago i saw her dogs white hair all over the back of his car and thought it was kinda weird.then whenever i ask him to go to the store he takes like 2 hours to go to the gas station.he lied last night and said he stoped by the bank at 9:30 at night. And aparwntly it takes two hours at the bank at night? Hes also been acting really loveable almost like hes trying to hide something.should i be worried or am i just acting paranoid because im pregnant? :(

[love102110]

Girl he'll be dumb if he does that, leaving you and your baby for some trashy little girl, knowing how fast she is i doubt someone will take her seriously, i know it aint right for you to be all up on his case but if you have a feeling hes doing something behind your back then go ahead and do whatever you gotta do to find out whats going on, you dont deserve to get laughed at especially being pregnant thats just disrespectful

[Carissa0411]

It makes me angry because i get hit on all the time by guys even his friends even when im pregnant! I always turn all them down and im going to be mad as hell if hes sleeping with that nasty little 17 year old girl! All she does is sleep with his friends and smokes all there weed.so i ill be damned if he trades me in for some dumb bimbo.

[Melissa_25]

The only time my husband ever deleted his messages was when we were teenagers and he was cheating on me. If he's deleting messages and making up stories then he's lying. Don't let him make you feel like the bad guy for asking questions. Relationships are supposed to have trust and if he's Giving you reason not to trust him then there's something wrong. Either you guys need to have a serious talk and he needs to fess up to what's going on so you guys can work through it or you shouldn't be together . You can't work through things on your own, it takes two people to make a relationship work.

[love102110]

He's hiding something! I'd be damned if i let my bf hang out with a female especially them messy ones i dont trust females at all period. Keep your guard up girl and definitely keep an eye on him it all sounds fishy.

[Carissa0411]

Well he gets mad and starts saying y dont u trust me.and for some reason has been really clingy lately like hes trying to hide something.i tried looking through his phone but he deletes everything. I cant figure out another way to catch him! If hes not lieing about cheating hes deffinitely lieibg about something els.

[newmama21]

Girl, he us lying!! You need to figure out a way to prove it!!! I'm usually not one to be paranoid or snoopy  but it's sounds very much like he is hiding something

[Carissa0411]

He also erases all his txt and internet history even his email messages

[Cindy0624]

Hes lying .

[Carissa0411]

I asked him but he said he didnt have anything to do with that girl. Hes cheated on me befor and for some reason i just have a gut feeling hes lieing about something.when i asked him about the dog hair he said he didnt know how it got there. And the whole bank thing last night i mean really who takes two hours at the bank at9:30 at night.

[JessiiMichelle]

I get this way too I would just keep your eyes open because it could be your just paranoid or it could be that your gut feeling is right. But I would def ask whats up.