Have you taken a home pregnancy test yet? You can take a home pregnancy test 2 weeks after having sex or after a missed period. It'd be a good idea to find out before trying to talk to this guy(bf?). Although I am not at all surprised by his actions, as statistically speaking only 20 percent of the fathers marry the teen mothers of their first children, the rest take off. As Clysta said, this is why so many people strongly stress to teens that they should wait to have children. It is very difficult to be a single parent, but try not to worry about any of that until you find out for sure if you are pregnant or not. That is your first step, and then you can go from there.
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My ex that I dated for 3 years wanted me to have a baby! I had my daughter when I was 16.. im 19 now. And I've been with my current boyfriend for almost 14 months and HE is the one that takes care of me and my daughter.. not her dad. My daughter doesn't even know her" biological father" (if you can even give him such a title..psssshhh) and he's 21! Don't worry about him if he's gonna act like that, you need to be in a stable relationship and know you can trust him.. and not have to question it. I was pregnant again in august but ended in a miscarriage at almost 7 weeks with my current boyfriend :( and I know he would've been a wonderful father to that baby as well.. if he is just gonna avoid you then maybe you should find someone better to be with and have a baby with! (Im not judging you, I swear.. I completely get it..) but let us all know how it goes! :)
What you described actually isn't that uncommon. Very few teenage boys will stick around when they find out a girl is pregnant, which is why we stress so much to WAIT until you're in a far more stable relationship (or married) and then have children. It's difficult to be a single parent and over half of teenage mothers do it alone. If he doesn't want to be there, there's not too much you can do. You just have to see if he wants to be apart of it and if not you can't force him to stay.
but these are the decisions i made so i have to live with them