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dating while pregnant

Heyy everyone im 27 weeeks and 2days my baby dad left me months ago so im single.im not worried about dating or men just been focusing on getting ready for my son about a week ago i bumped into this guy i let him know i wasn't looking for nothing and he knows im pregnant but yet he still wants to get to know me and keeps asking to take me out its just awkward for me cause i dont know what his intentions are i keep turning him down but he won't quite... i don't want to start something with him and then he leaves when my son is born
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Awn thats sweet of him. Just try and get to know him. Doesnt mean you have to have sex with him or anything. Just find out who he is and whats he about. Never know, he could prob end up a good friend. Just dont rush into it. There is no harm in having friends.
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I agree wit hazel;) because I know it can get lonely and no one wants to be lonely and like she said take it slow :)
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1961938 tn?1398718101
There are a lot of guys that have fetishes for pregnant women so definitely take it slowly. Or just don't date him at all. What do you want? Are you interested in him at all or are you wanting to be single for now?
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Ya there is a lot of weird guys with fetishes for pregnant women. When I was pregnant my boyfriends Co worker keep telling him pregnant women are sexy and something about them would turn him on. . :/
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He may just want to show that he can be there for you with out wanting to get you into bed. If I was you I would give him a chance. What's the worst that can happen? Just got for some lunch and see what happens...
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8197902 tn?1408058802
I have a similar situation. My baby's father and I broke up and a guy for my past has been trying to talk to me. He knows I'm pregnant and having a girl. He has a son himself and he keeps telling me he's always wanted a daughter and he wants to be there for me and help me raise her. And even though I like him and lot I feel like I shouldn't have these feelings sense I'm pregnant with another man's baby.
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7343521 tn?1402371959
Just be very very careful. . . People are weird. . . If you wanna get to know him go for it. Just. . Be careful.
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7552771 tn?1469929649
My first baby daddy left me when I was pregnant and I had a guy want to be with me and he was a good guy but I was stupid and got back with my baby daddy who cheated on me before he left me and we got married now divorced and that's one of my biggest regrets. You'll never know unless you try.
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7763771 tn?1510501652
I have a good friend that did date another guy while she was pregnant with her ex-fiancés baby, her baby girl is now 2! Yes, be cautious but not everyone is a creep. It may turn out better than you'd expect. If you feel its right, and if its what you want then go for it.  Goodluck
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