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Ladies . . .

Okay So I'm Currently Pregnant && Lately Me && My Baby Father Been Bumping Heads Often.  He Come Over Every night Witch Is About Too Stop ! I Feel As Thou He Social Network Too Damn Much && Also I Feel As Thou That Since I'm Pregnant He Can Do Wtf He Wanna Do . When I First Found Out I Was Pregnant I Cut All My Male Friends Off Just Off Strength too Respect Him .. What's Going On ? What Do You Think ? Would I Be Right Too Have Male Friends With No Attachments Just Friends. ?
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Yes We Are In A Relationship
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In a relationship you need trust. You need friends. Friends of both genders. It's okay for you to have male friends and for him to have female friends.
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Are y'all together if ur together then I guys need to sit down n get. A understanding ..if not then do u the hell with him his concern need to be his child male friends w out strings attached is fine if he not your ol man
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First are y'all together or is he just your baby father if y'all not together y'all can do what ever y'all want but if you guys are together then u need to communicate to him how u feel in my opinion if u are in a relationship all friends of opposite sex need to cut off 1. Wat are u going to do with this friend hang etc hmm no because even as much u trust your mate u can't trust the "friend" 2. If u need someone to talk to then your mate should be the one so u don't need a friend there's really no point of having friends that's opposite sex
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There is nothing wrong with him having female friends and you having male friends if you are committed to one another they can ONLY be friends though
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Are y'all together or plan on gettin back together? 2 wrongs don't make it right neither does an eye for an eye not saying that's the case here. I admire you cared and respected him enough you took the incentive to stop talking to the opposite sex. If you want to work things out with him just tell him how you feel about the situation. If not it will continue to go and you don't need the extra stress. If its meant to be everything will fall into place.
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I'm in the same situation!
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I have lots of male friends, my fiance has lots of female friends - we trust each other and we have a good relationship so I don't care at all who he talks to. I'm not going to exclude every guy on earth from being friends with me because they have penises... I think it would be disrespectful of myself and my relationship to do that because it would basically be saying that I can't be trusted around other men. Just because someone has a penis doesn't mean I have any attraction to him - and even those I am attracted to I wouldn't ever cheat on my partner with. He is the father of my child and the love of my life - I don't need to end good friendships to prove it to him.
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Well in my situation my bf talks to girls as friends "supposibly" so I have guy friends I see nothinf wrong with it.

Congrats!!!!
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8105888 tn?1403386401
*Typo Since I'm Pregnant He Think That He Can Do What He Want !
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