need opinions

[tiffy101]

I think i might be pregnant and my fiance say if i am that i am aborting it because he doesnt want another one right now my thing is i dont want to and i dont believe in it what do you's think i should do?

[Sarah61086]

we cant answer that for you, it's 100% your decision.
If you don't agree with it, you have answered you own question.
If you wernt ready for another you should have taken precaution.
What ever you decide make sure its the right choice for you, so you have no regrets

[HeatherLF16]

I agree with the rest of the ladies don't let anyone push you into a decision you are not comfortable with.  I know plenty of friends that have gotten abortions, and have felt regret or wonder "what could have been".  I do believe it is a personal choice and I am not one to judge.  But, this is a choice that you will have to make and have to live with forever not him.  And well... he should have thought about not wanting a baby before he chose to have unprotected sex.

I have never heard anyone regret bringing a child into the world even if the timing wasn't right for them it was a blessing... or even if they didn't keep the child... most people who give up their babies to have a better life are usually at peace with their choice. Just something to ponder.  Best of luck to you!

[mom2ariana]

my opinion is going to be that you not have an abortion. not only are you not comfortable with it, but you will regret it on top of that. trust me, because i've had one. its the worst thing you can put yourself through, and you can never take back that baby...if your fiance doesn't want another one then consider adoption. there are tons of great families looking for a baby, and a lot of people offer open adoption, where you can still get phone calls, pictures, and maybe even go visit. please don't let anyone pressure you into doing something as awful as abortion.

if you need to talk to me about my decision to abort, please feel free to message me...i'd be happy to tell you what happened & answer any questions you have.

[Victoria01]

Do not be pressured into doing anything you are not totally comfortable with. It sounds like you need to make a choice between your baby and your boyfriend and by your original post stating that you do not believe in abortion, the decision is already made.

[nickieb85]

It is totally up to you on this one. I wouldn't let anyone push me into doing anything I didn't want to do and abortion is #1 on the top of my list. It is not up to him, and you need to think about how you will feel not only about the baby but about how you are going to be able to deal with the mental stress of doing something so life defining. Please don't let a guy tell you what you have to do with your body or your baby.

[trying_x_3]

I believe that this is your decision. You just have to ask yourself no matter what decision you make "can I live with this decision". There is also adoption and a possiblity that he MIGHT come around. Ultmatley it's up to you, so don't let anyone push you into doing anything you don't want to do. Try not to stress, you might not be pregnant at all.