Aa
Making me feel bad ;(
I'm 19 and a FTM in a 4 year relationship living with my boyfriend in our own for two years. He is 25 (please don't give me grief over our age difference because I was legal to consent to be with someone over 18) he is a great guy and I live him so much. He works so hard but we just found out that I'm 5 weeks pregnant. The few people I've told have made me feel like a disappointment and like I can't do it. Which makes me sad and ruins out happiness. It's also making me feel bad about telling my family and other friends because of what they may say. ;( should I feel like crap about this??
Thank you so much! Finally someone who knows how people treat that age difference lol! Ill try to ignore them! : )
I was in a similar situation as you before an i know the feeling...most of my pregnany i was just miserable from everyone giving me grief about everything....but hey its your life and its yalls blessing...if they arent happy well they dont deserve to be in the babys life...ignore the rude ppl that try to put you down and focus on yalls relationship and your now lil family :) congrats!!
I got pregnant with my 1st at 18 and had her at 19 and I was scared to tell my family as well, they were disappointed but I still had their support. Do not feel bad it happens all the time, you can still have a wonderful life it just takes a bit more effort and dedication. Babies do not ruin dreams they only delay them, good luck and congrats.
Thank you two so much! I really need a little reassurance from people who have been there to give me a little strength to stand up for myself! : )
I'm 22 married to a 29 year old we've been together over 4 years and I'm 6 weeks pregnant. The only thing that matters is if your happy. Don't listen to what the jerks have to say
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