Thanks everyone. I'm trying to stay positive but it's not easy. I've been dealing with him like this since 5 weeks. And my family only found out t 22 weeks. And his at 26 weeks.and we're always fighting which doesn't help at all. He tells me I'm pushing away bc im always complaining.but he's been pushing me away since we found out and I wouldn't be complaining if he were actually involved and there for me
Im going through something similar to your situation. & in the beginning I use to let him not being involved & just being rude get to me but then I realized when he is ready he will want to be involved you wont have to force him & I dont need him. So now idc anymore I have to worry about me & the well being of my child. Try not to let him & his family stress you out. Stay strong & be the best you can for your blessing!
You just have to think about the baby right now and once he/she gets here you won't have time to worry about him or his family because what they have to say doesn't matter, just keep your head up your almost there I know it's hard now but your doing everything you can for your baby. In the end the baby is all that matters. Goodluck to you and your family it's going to be his lost no one else's
And according to him I don't want his family involved...I've been trying to get them involved tho. And he says he is but idk everything else seems more important. Just makes me sad thinking he/she won't have its father
Forget him. Get child support from his sorry ***! If he doesn't want to be involved then that's his loss. If you're already doing it alone then do it alone. You don't need him around. Just know there are men out there that would love to have a child even if it isn't theirs. You don't need a jerk like him
Thats so rude....im so sorry you have to deal with people like that. Dont think your letting your baby down all that matters is If your doing whats best for you and your baby..if he doesnt want to be involved right now do you think hell be involved when the baby comes? Probably not..so do what will make you happier! Good luck with everything girl