Seriously people are crazy.

[nicnicole03]

So the sperm donar to my baby has been posting stuff on FB. Yes it is to get an arise out of me but he seriously is delusional. A little background he is a pos alcoholic. Claims he hired a lawyer to take FULL custody from me then threaten to kidnap her from hospital. All the while he had someone slash my tires on my suv. Had his family threaten  me at work. Nd thats not even the half of what he has put me thru nd i am already high risk nd been in preterm labor twice that they stopped. The only reason i am keeping him from her cause he is not fit to be a parent due to his problem with alcohol. He cant go a day without drinking nd has been arrested 4 times for dui nd has a court ordered interlock transmission in his car. He is a piece of work. Anyhow i drank one night nd ended up pregnant but he has fake drs notes saying he couldnt have kids. That ge was sterile. Well after the fact he bragged about them being fake cause he wanted a kid nd didnt care who he got pregnant. Nd once i found out i was preggers he automatically told everyone it was his. He doesn't know if I had been with anyone else but funny he assumes its his. Complicated situation so as you can imagine I've been pretty secretive about when she is due. Where she is born nd my dr. But somehow somebody keeps tellin him everything so ive shut everyone out. Not knowing who to trust. So I've picked out a name nd to be honest idc if he likes it or not. My body. My baby. My choice. N we were never together. Never will be. Ever. So where I live it's mothers choice nd nothin he can do about it. He claims he will be in room when she is born nd even invited his mom nd grandma to be in there. Lmao. Excuse me my own mother isn't going to be in room. This is MY VAGINA nd umm pretty sure I'm the only one who does have a say who sees me push a baby out of it. Anyways he posted on FB that he will not have his daughter named what I picked out nd he would make sure thru court her first middle nd last name would be changed to what he sees fit..... Hahahahahahahahahaha. I'm sorry but does anyone else find that comical. Cause I sure do. He 1 honestly thinks they will hand a newborn baby over to him 2 he's an alcoholic. 3 he honestly invited his family in the room when he doesn't know dr hospital or the fact he is safety list. He steps foot in hospital he will be escorted out. Plus in the state I live in he has NO RIGHTS WITHOUT DNA. So he is a nobody til he takes me to court. Nd 4 he honestly thinks he can take me to court to change her name cause he doesn't like it. He has even had stuff monogrammed for her with the name he chose. Which is stupid in his End cause pretty sure I am the one who fills birth certificate out.  Lol but I'm almost tempted to come up with some ugly ugly name nd tell his little spy so he can worry even more about her name. Jus to be a brat. Sorry ladies I needed to vent. I jus can't believe some people are that crazy.

[nicnicole03]

Idk he sent a so called friend of mine to my house this morning to see if I had baby yet. Lmao. So I told them a bunch of made up crap for them to go back nd give him false info. Nd that's what gets me is he cares so much about this baby that he wants to take her from me but yet he causes all this drama while i am pregnant with her. Unnecessary stress. But the funny thing is he wants her so bad he doesn't care what it does to me while I'm carrying her. Nd he even told someone he doesn't care what happens to me as long as he gets the baby. Nd I have documentation on the threats at my work. But he is somewhat smart he makes threats thru other people so he can't be held accountable. Like my tires beig slashed he bragged about havin someone do it for him. So basically he can do what he wants nd get away with it cause its not him directly doin it. But I've got a few surprises for him. Cause jus as he does I have people he thinks he can trust they are willing to testify against him nd all he keeps doing is giving them info for me to use against him in the end. He told my brother that he was coming to hospital regardless of what I said. This was yesterday. My brother told him that he showed up the hospital will have him arrested.. As far as I know he doesn't know what hospital nd considering I'm a private patient he can call every hospital he wants nd won't find me. I'm jus over the drama. I refuse for my baby's life to start out like this. Cause he's immature.

[Chelle1991]

Is he trying to make you go into labor early? Christ.... Best of luck to you momma. And the threats weren't enough??! Or do the police want proof of them? I'd almost tell you to get a guard dog or two in case he shows up to your place somehow. This is crazy that isn't going away unless it ends badly...

[nicnicole03]

Thank you so much for the advice nd input. He's a real piece of work. Nd I've got my list nd the hospital already has him on high alert for the safety of their patients. Nd his family would be dumb to show up. I appreciate you all. :)

[mamaof4410]

I'm sooooooooooo glad I dont have this problem cuz I'd be in jail...seriously. I wish you the best for your baby and hope you have a smooth delivery:)

[Alexiafaye]

You stay strong girl! Don't let him ruin you and your baby's happiness! I hope he decides to man up or just plain leaves you to your life with your babies. I wish you the best honey ;(

[MrsCookii]

KEEP YOUR HEAD UP AND KEEP DOING WHAT YOUR DOING!