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Seriously people are crazy.

So the sperm donar to my baby has been posting stuff on FB. Yes it is to get an arise out of me but he seriously is delusional. A little background he is a pos alcoholic. Claims he hired a lawyer to take FULL custody from me then threaten to kidnap her from hospital. All the while he had someone slash my tires on my suv. Had his family threaten  me at work. Nd thats not even the half of what he has put me thru nd i am already high risk nd been in preterm labor twice that they stopped. The only reason i am keeping him from her cause he is not fit to be a parent due to his problem with alcohol. He cant go a day without drinking nd has been arrested 4 times for dui nd has a court ordered interlock transmission in his car. He is a piece of work. Anyhow i drank one night nd ended up pregnant but he has fake drs notes saying he couldnt have kids. That ge was sterile. Well after the fact he bragged about them being fake cause he wanted a kid nd didnt care who he got pregnant. Nd once i found out i was preggers he automatically told everyone it was his. He doesn't know if I had been with anyone else but funny he assumes its his. Complicated situation so as you can imagine I've been pretty secretive about when she is due. Where she is born nd my dr. But somehow somebody keeps tellin him everything so ive shut everyone out. Not knowing who to trust. So I've picked out a name nd to be honest idc if he likes it or not. My body. My baby. My choice. N we were never together. Never will be. Ever. So where I live it's mothers choice nd nothin he can do about it. He claims he will be in room when she is born nd even invited his mom nd grandma to be in there. Lmao. Excuse me my own mother isn't going to be in room. This is MY VAGINA nd umm pretty sure I'm the only one who does have a say who sees me push a baby out of it. Anyways he posted on FB that he will not have his daughter named what I picked out nd he would make sure thru court her first middle nd last name would be changed to what he sees fit..... Hahahahahahahahahaha. I'm sorry but does anyone else find that comical. Cause I sure do. He 1 honestly thinks they will hand a newborn baby over to him 2 he's an alcoholic. 3 he honestly invited his family in the room when he doesn't know dr hospital or the fact he is safety list. He steps foot in hospital he will be escorted out. Plus in the state I live in he has NO RIGHTS WITHOUT DNA. So he is a nobody til he takes me to court. Nd 4 he honestly thinks he can take me to court to change her name cause he doesn't like it. He has even had stuff monogrammed for her with the name he chose. Which is stupid in his End cause pretty sure I am the one who fills birth certificate out.  Lol but I'm almost tempted to come up with some ugly ugly name nd tell his little spy so he can worry even more about her name. Jus to be a brat. Sorry ladies I needed to vent. I jus can't believe some people are that crazy.
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Also if you tell the hospital that you do not want him or his family in the room they will not let him or tell him what room you are in. Its your body and baby and he can not tell you what to name it, take the baby from you or anything. After the baby is born take him to court so you can get sole custody, since hes been in trouble with the law the court should be on your side. Make sure you document everything he is doing so that way you can prove that he is an unfit parent.
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I've tried nd around here until he is actually caught in the act they won't do anything. It's pretty much he has to have a knife to my throat before I can do anything.
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I meant make him believe I'm naming her something ugly nd get his panties all ruffled lol. Not really naming my child something ugly.
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you need to go to the police and get a restraining order.
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