Share your stories please ladies?

[elizabethandskylar]

I've been feeling like I'm going to be alone forever beause I'm having a baby and I'm totally on my own the dad is gone to I have no clue where. Anyway I just have been feeling like ill never find anyone but I know I'm just having like tunnel vision. Will you ladies share some of your stories about meeting a great man after already having a kid? I just need something to look up too ha.

[jsudz624]

I feel your pain girl.. my ex and I were so happy n crazy in love with each other.. he promised he would never b a deadbeat dad bc his father was one n he never wanted to b like his father. He even told me he had feeling I was pregnant before I was even late on period n he was happy. But unfortunately his grandfather died who was like his father the day I took the pregnancy test. N he broke up wit me out of no where on our one year anniversary.. n one of his reasons was bc he claimed our relationship was based on sex.. this was end of jan I havnt seen him since n now he's going around telling everyone the baby isn't his n I cheated on him. Which we never had trust issues or would even think that we would cheat on each other bc we were so happy. . Now I'm almost 19 weeks pregnant. Hasn't texted or called me. My uncle is even his boss.. he just doesn't care n I was a complete mess for 2 months I didn't wanna get out of bed I was so upset n hurt.. but I realized life goes on and even though u feel alone ur not bc u have a blessing growing inside u who's gonna love u and need you.. n honestly I thought if he doesn't man up and things dont work out in the end. I have a baby what guy is gonna wanna date me but I'm still pregnant and I have really sweet nice guys who already wanna take me out on dates! Its crazy.. n they arnt pervs who just want booty they are sweet sucessful cute guys.. but right now I don't want to think about dating or finding another guy. I'm just focusing on me n my baby.. but when the time is right u will find an amazing guy! N the really good part about havin a baby is ur gonna totally look at guys different bc ur mature n a mother and won't wanna date boys.  Btw how many weeks are you??

[excitedmommy856]

I understand my story is kinda crazy! I was with a man for 6 months and I left him because of the wag he was treating me and drugs involved etc. Then shortly after that I started seeing someone more of a friendship. At first. Found out I was pregnant! By my ex boyfriend. And the man I'm with now is still with me and I'm due in 8 weeks. And the father of the child has not been in contact with me this whole time. But I can tell you there are good men out there. And thankgod my love is in my life and has been going through this whole pregnancy with me.! Good luck to you. Everything will work out. Stay strong and believe me there's someone out there for you and hopefully a mature man willing to accept you and your bundle of joy :)

[elizabethandskylar]

Thank you:)

[Juju_lijahmommy]

I have a three year old to a perivous relationship and i got pregnant again to someone else and due in four days ...my bd wants nothing to do with me or the baby ..i just so happen to fall madly love with my best guy friend who was deployed in the navy when i found out i was pregnant he now back in the us and he has stood by me This whole time even calls my unborn his own ..he so excited just like any first time dad ... There are still amazing guys out there.