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Single FTM

Never thought I'd be a single mother with my first child, but that's just how the cards were dealt for me smh. Just curious anyone else a single FTM worried about how to deal with the fact that your child's father may and will try to have another woman be the step mother? This situation ***** for me & I know I did nothing wrong to deserve this, but I made the Right decision for my daughter and myself! & furthermore IDGAF what a judge, mediator, family or friend will say or think, my daughter can not & Will Not be staying over at her father's place or even be alone with him or his family without me being present. I am her mother & I make the decisions for her, she doesn't need a step mother, not while I exist!! #Frustrated #FedTheFuckUp
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I'm gonna be single first time mom I'm due January 6 with a girl to. Me and the bd we don't talk much. He never wanted to have kids and tried to talk me into getting an abortion.. now he's telling me he will do what he can and help, I don't believe him at all.. But I know he will never have my daughter alone unless I'm with her till he proves he's trust worthy.. and about the step mom thing my baby has one mom and that's all she needs!
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I might not stay with the father and I've never thought of there being a step mother that's bound to happen like your baby will have a step father too. I just worry about the dad not loving baby because he hates me :(
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