So effing FURIOUS

[babymalaki]

So my "husband" and I aren't really on talking terms because something happened (in a previous post) but what I'm FURIOUS about is he has a very bad gambling problem and is making out he will do anything for my son and I. Well he said he is going to buy the pram, cot and change table. I live in a one bedroom unit, so the baby will be with me. He won't have a nursery until I can afford to move out into a bigger unit/house. The other day my ex shows me all these pictures of this BEAUTIFUL nursery he had done for an ex and her child (not his) and all the clothes and ALOT more. At the time I was like how lovely for a man to stand up and be a father to someone else's child that isn't his. Well I'm 7 months pregnant and have not seen ONE thing from him. He had thrown in my face today that he is "buying" a pram and that he has paid for my rego on my car. Well I have had a gut full of the s.h.i.t !! I said your son will be here in two months, you abused me the other week and then make out you want everything to work YET I have not seen ONE thing brought for him and he is YOUR BLOOD. People might think I'm selfish but this is about his son and he all the fake promises he has been making. This has made my blood boil, he will never change he is the same old abusive, horrible person. My son and I deserve a lot better!

[babymalaki]

I'm happy your man changed for the better only if mine would but I know it won't happen. He needs professional help that's why I left.
My mum always said a leopard never changes it's spots and that's exactly him.

[imfinallypregnant]

Leave him and get him to pay child support.. That man does not love you or your baby so theres no point of you staying with him he's not worth it.. My husband was actually really into gambling too we used to go all the time to the casinos and spent alot of money i would just go because he didnt want to go by himself and also to make sure he wasnt spending all our money..we used to fight alot over it because he was gambling every weekend. But the moment we found out i was pregnant he stopped going now all the extra money he has goes to our savings account for the baby and he was actually the one that said he was not going to go gamble anymore because he wants our baby to have everything he didnt hes counting down the days of our gender scan so we can start baby shopping So i dont see why your man can man up and do the same . i really feel like you are wasting your time with a man like that he will never change trust me...

[babymalaki]

@beaz95
Ah yeah I have had enough! He went threw my sons baby tin last Thursday and put the money threw the pokies and said it was my fault he got abusive because I said to him he should be ashamed and disgusted in himself.
He said I go and go him, what other way can I get threw to him? Easy ignore him and leave because that's the only way he can learn to grow up and be an adult. My bosses went out and brought me a bassinet. I also was controlled by him and was told I wasn't allowed to talk to my family because they hate him. Well yeah they hate you because you treat their daughter and sister with no respect. Ah so angry.

[Beaz95]

I'd be p!ssed!!! My husband might be an @$$ sometimes, but he always puts baby first. We have a piggy bank almost full of money for our son, and he's constantly counting it to be sure it's still there. It's a good thing you left him. I say just ignore him until he decides to actually try for your baby. I hope all works out for you. Best of luck. :)