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So i just found out.
So i just found out yesturday that i am pregnant, we have an 11 month old baby girl. he didnt really want another kid for a while but it happened. i gave him the test at midnight and he was in shock. i cried my eyes out cause im not exactly ready for another one. and this morning hes all mad at me and says im going to pull the "im pregnant" card for everythin, WHEN i did our first child alone. i need some advice on how to handle this!! HELP HELP HELP!!!
Thanks all! We have taken time to talk and what not, not totally talk. But i think hes starting to come around on it. hes asking me when he lays on my tummy if hes gonna hurt me. i think this is gonna be rough at the start but we will get it together. i think hes more worried about money then anything. thanks for the advice! I cant wait to be back tot he group..i have missed medhelp!
I really think you two need to sit down and talk. I can understand him being shocked but he needs to understand that what he said was hurtful and that you need his support right now. Hopefully he'll apologize for the insensitive remark too.
On the plus side, I know it may be harder at first to have kids so close in age but they generally are a lot closer (to each other) when they are close in age. They will have each other to play with and talk to.
I hope things smooth over for you soon. Take care!
On the plus side, I know it may be harder at first to have kids so close in age but they generally are a lot closer (to each other) when they are close in age. They will have each other to play with and talk to.
I hope things smooth over for you soon. Take care!
Aww...not such a great way to start the New Year! But ya I agree....if he didn't want another one that bad then maybe he should have been pressing the issue of using condoms or something or asking you if you were on birth control.
Congrats though...I hope he comes around!
Congrats though...I hope he comes around!
Im sorry you are having issues, but let me just say this....I am a mother of 3 gorgeous girls and started TTC the begining of this month. Just found out im pregnant on the 30th. Babies and a BLESSING and like spade said it takes two to tango. If he is treating you like that, it doesnt sound like you need him. You need to find someone who will support you through any and everything. You surely didnt get prego by yourself. Good luck with everything!!!
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