TMI BUT SCARED!?!

Question

okay...well i shaved and i cut myself "down there" so i have like an ingrown hair:/ well i was looking and the inaide of my vagina looked swollen:( and dark!!:( it dont hurt,burn,itch or anything....but like i sat down an was checking and it looked bad:(:(:( is it bcuz of sex like maybe its to hard or is it bcuz the pregnancy idk im scared i have a doctor apointment tomorrow and im scared to ask if she can check!!:'(

KelseyNicole93 · Answer

Regardless, just ask. Obviously your mom knows you are sexually active?!

may1stbaby · Answer

My doctor never lets anyone in the room before we have a chance to talk just me and her. not even if my husband or mom go with me she makes them stay outside then after we talk and its time to hear or see the baby then she goes outside and gets them but thats how kaiser works. If your hospital or doctor doesnt work like that then it will be a good idea for you to call them and ask them that from now on you want to see the doctor by yourself to not let your mom go in unless you let her and only after you speak to your doctor in private you cant continue feeling scared or ashamed to ask things like this especially now that you are pregnant you cant just let things that worry you go without the dr checking or knowing because your mom doesnt let you have the privacy you need in your appoinments.

mommyeande · Answer

How far gone are you? It probably is a bit swollen as there is a lot of extra blood around that area and baby, also the extra blood and pressure would cause the skin to be darker, a lot of woman get varicose veins because of the pressure honestly wouldn't worry but ask your doc if your scared x

respectbee · Answer

You can have your Dr send her out the room to wait..my dr doesn't let anybody in the room when talking personal things even after blood work she let's me know the results before anybody comes in the room..

BabyOnBoard_18 · Answer

im so scared:'( bcuz i dont want my mom in the room when i ask:(

may1stbaby · Answer

You should never be afraid or ashamed to ask your doctor anything.. When you are pregnant everything down there changes it can be normal but just in case you should ask her to check.