TMI lol

[tiara06]

Sooooooooo lately me and my ex have been conversing After not for almost 8 months. But Me And the father of my child are still together.  Everything is great between us we argue and all but no one is perfect.  But ive been craving my ex sex bc his oral is sooooo good lord jesus. He's bless. Dont get me wrong my bf is great also but my ex.  Jesus take the wheel.  I don't wanna step out on my bf. But its been on my mind heavy

[lydia1st]

I agree,  I love my boyfriend,  I dont call my exes because if that mf did it to me I would hate him..SHe needs to make up her mind or one of the will find out the truth always comes out .

[momy2be1215]

Lol period stop lusting over your ex because if the shoes where on the other foot you wouldn't be so happy tell your dude how  you think about having oral sex with your ex because hes better then him and see if he doesn't go off on you lol the issh people post on here and that has nothing to do with hormones if you're mans not satisfying you then you should have never committed because now you're allways going to have a wondering mind but hey thats your life me and my hubby have a great relationship with wonderful oral sex and my ex couldn't compare to my man on any counts thats why hes a ex any one who told you its ok is setting you and your relationship up for failure

[tiara06]

Well I will say this. For you to say "and anyone else who doesn't know jesus...." is very rude and ignorant ill say... but I do wanna thank you every prayer counts. Enjoy the rest of your night.

[MrsAmySanchez]

@Alexx1216 yes im fully aware of that..doesn't mean I can't share it though, thats what im supposed to do is share the bible with nonbelievers..I hope you one day you get to know Jesus as well before its too late, its soo important yet alot of people don't take it seriously until they meet their maker but by then its too late..anyway I hope you have a goodnight as well and ill also be praying for you..goodnight girls

[MrsAmySanchez]

Everytime someone says what the bible says they get accused of "judging" im NOT the judge God is and im going by what God himself has said..im not upset with you either, I wanted to say what God says about your thoughts and thats it but people get upset when someone talks about the bible because its convicting..yes we are different people but the bible applys to all people, hopefully one day you will turn your life to Jesus for the sake of where youll spend eternity, and anyone else who doesn't know Jesus as their saviour I would hope has that chance before its too late..that was and is my main purpose in life but I don't want to continue back and forth at this point I hope you have a goodnight and ill be praying for you

[tiara06]

Thank you!  But it was nice chatting it up with all of you.

[alexx1216]

I'm not gunna sit here & argue about someone's post because everyone has their own opinion about things, & some of you are just getting too into your feelings about this topic. But no you don't have to hide being Christian, but have you thought that maybe not everyone reads or believes in the bible, that's a completely different thing than having a thought about something, which is human nature, the bible is a belief.

[tiara06]

Im sorry you've got the wrong impression I'm not mad nor offended but it does sicken me that you think you got the rights to judge someone on their internal thoughts. You're married.  I applaud you. You're a Christian I applaud you. But it does not give you any rights to try and make someone feel bad or bash them for their thoughts they decided to share on a public forum. You can't expect me to think like you because my life aint like yours. Your opinions well stated. Good points.  But at some point you have to realize we aren't the same people 2 different states of mind. Im not in your shoes. Your not wearing mines. Its life each and every one is different. We all have a different way of expression ourselves and handling things.

[sweetmila]

Eekk you're playing with fire girl!

[MrsAmySanchez]

Well I read things on here like your post that make me uncomfortable so if the bible makes you uncomfortable im going to have to say oh well..im not going to hide being a Christian just like you didn't hide your "THOUGHT" so don't say something like you said if you can't handle the possible responses

[smileymonn89]

Excuse me i am happily married have been for years now with a 100% faithful man of God and no i can honestly say i do not contact any ex ever for any reason because i am 100% faithful to my Husband.

So dont just accuse us of not being married.
If you are that upset obviously you know your wrong.

Human nature is sinful from birth so it may be human nature but that certainly does not make it right.

You can train yourself not to look  or lust after others its all a heart attitude.

What your thinking and doing is wrong full stop.

Why not tell your partner how you feel and what you want?

Why can we not bring up the bible its the best way of life. And has all the answers.

At the end of the day you know what is and isnt right its your decision and i hope you choose the right thing

[tiara06]

I think the bible is on a whole another level bc maybe some of us arent into tge same belief especially bc thats a very sensitive topic. So no I personally don't think you should be comparing it to what im posting. But hey that's my opinion.  Just like you've posted yours. Like ive stated before I don't see anything wrong with A THOUGHT

[MrsAmySanchez]

And if your trying to get at weather or not im married, I am married not dating but I also sin just like everyone else in this world, if I wasn't a sinner I wouldn't need Jesus but the point is to strive to be better and more like Jesus by doing your best to turn away from your sins..youll mess up cuz no ones perfect but sinning and pretending its ok instead of admitting its wrong is what bothers me

[smileymonn89]

But the harm is done because your wanting your ex.

Why dont you just help your current partner out teach him what you like and connect with him. I stead of thinking of your ex ?

[MrsAmySanchez]

I can talk about the bible just like she can talk about how good oral sex was with her ex, thats doesn't bother you but the bible does lol

[tiara06]

I don't know any human being in this world that would NOT reach out to a ex friend or ex husband boyfriend or whomever that has been thru a very difficult time and to know about it and not even pick a phone to say "hey ive heard what happened so and so. Just wondering if your ok" etc......  I don't see any wrong doings there.  Yes ive thought of my past with him hell who hasnt.... and let's not talk about sins bc last time I check this forum is fir 18-24 all of us cant possibly be married . So ur first sin is having child out of wedlock so don't bring the bible and all into this

[alexx1216]

Remember not everyone reads the bible, so I don't think you should try to talk about what the bible sais, I think we're talking about human nature here. Everyone has their own opinion though, some people/couples are more open minded. I'd also stare Beyoncé down if she walked by & wouldn't have a problem with my man looking too lol its human nature, doesn't mean he's going to try & cheat on me with her, just looking.

[MrsAmySanchez]

And yea it is a sin if your going by what the bible says

[tiara06]

Im glad you gave your opinion. We're all women here. Im just reaching out to women having girl talk. But like I said it's all in my mind we haven't physically or emotionally connected. Soo no harm has been done.  But thanks tho

[MrsAmySanchez]

Having those thoughts are normal but your supposed to put it out of your head and do what you can to not sit there and lust over it, or be talking to him cuz you don't know what it could lead to..just like id expect my husband to not disrespect me by staring and lusting at beyonce and turn the other way..thats the right thing to try and do..

[smileymonn89]

No not all normal men think about someone else at some point.

Clearly you have no idea about a commited relationship at all.

Its two people not two and occasionally an ex....  and stop blaming this on hormones im sick of women blaming hormones for selfish and down right wrong behaviour. And no its not ok to think about your ex and how good he was if you really loved your partner you would not even talk to your ex.

Lust of the heart is just as bad as actually doing it all the same in Gods book !!

[alexx1216]

Yeah I mean it's normal, but now like I said put yourself in his shoes, if you saw your man writing his ex to see how she's doing because she was struggling or something going on you can't go crazy on him now. It's vise versa you know. You may be reminiscing on some things but dang atleast you sharing it here & not with him or telling your man, it's not illegal or a sin, like I said it's human nature to have thoughts & unless you're some kind of special you can't stop things from running thru your mind. Also if your man sees or asks anything make sure you tell him straight up about your convos, if not he may think your hiding something you know? But yeah I understand, not that im in that same position, but **** happens, no one is perfect.

[MrsAmySanchez]

It is cheating in your heart, maybe no one else heres reads or cares what the bible says but I do and even if I didn't I wouldn't agree that it ok..thinking about it is the first step to doing it, thats just common sense there..and you posted this in a public forum so I gave my opinion if you don't agree then continue doing what you are..if it's not wrong then you should have no problem telling your bf your thoughts and he should be ok with it..

[tiara06]

Sooo now im not normal? ??? Really? I can think of whatever i want. Hell all normal men think of someone else at some point of time.  Do u think if beyonce walked pass ur husband he's not going to look. If he doesnt ill be concern. Hell im going to turn around with mines and watch....Men r going to be men