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Dating site on bf's phone, rant #2
So for those of you that don't know the story from last night, long story short I found an app on my bf/bds phone last night and its a "frisky dating site." When I confronted him he claimed he had no idea how it got there and that he just noticed it yesterday. But it had all his info typed in to sign up, including his cell number. Well this morning, we got up and he went outside to smoke. So I grabbed his phone to check it out and he deleted the app. I didn't even ask him to, but he did, what to do about this? Should I still be concerned or what?
Yes, she clearly wrote of him being a meth addict and a surprise visit on him yesterday in which he was high. Not a good situation with an issue about a porn site on his phone being minor compared to that. Wishing you luck rosey to extricate yourself from a very dysfunctional situation. peace
Oh lord...if specialmom is right then I agree with her...but I also should let you know that just because you delete the happy doesn't mean your account is deleted. He could still get on his browser and Go to the webpage and sign in.
Rosey, you write on another forum that he's on meth and was high yesterday and that you hadn't seen him for two weeks and just went over to his place unanncounced to find him high. I'm going to encourage you to take yourself out of this situation. It's clearly toxic and something just doesn't make sense here.
Just he deleted the app if you have a phone download the app login as him. Or took his phone check the history or put the website of the app in the phone. Then read everything. It sounds bad but i used to play phone game before i got serious. Now i have 4 years with the same man now we prego with our second.
I'm not one to fill peoples heads full of negativity.. but then I think about this situation as if it were me. If it were me and my husband, I would still be hurt and curious to why it was even there especially with his info, I also would be worried about him hiding it more and even hiding other things. Remember the saying "trust takes a lifetime to earn but only a second to lose". I would just talk to him about it, watch how he reacts to talking about it, and be cautious of anything else. I am sorry, I know everyone is different, but if this were me I'd be totally heartbroken. Good luck hun!
I think he new he was busted when o would look though my husbands phone and I would ask him about stuff he would run and delete everuthing aswell. Then plan stupid.
It seems like this is a addiction maybe he should see a therapist. The technology nowadays makes it so easy to cheat. It seems a lot of people deal with this issue.
A few years ago before my husband decided to change his life around I caught him texting some girl so I called her and left a crazy message. I told her hope you enjoy having HERPES! And I told her her all kinds of crazy stuff.lol none of it was true but it made me feel better.:) I think she was terrified after that. Sorry not so related to the post just wanted to share.
He was caught thats why he deleted it,if he did.theres all sorts of apps you can get to hide other apps on your phone like fake calculators an stuff.id be ify
Not on his side but im sure he deleted it cuz he was caught and confronted. Doubtful it was innocent being a booty call type site with all his info typed in. I worked in a cell phone store and that personal info does NOT auto populate...he HAD to enter his info manually. Maybe him being busted was enough to make him stop. I doubt it though. Keep an eye on him and what he's doing on his phone. The web browser on a cell is just like a computer it holds the history unless the user deletes it....check it.
My husband looks at like those free web cam things but he doesnt have an email (and isnt smart enough to set one up) and cant set up an account. He doesnt even know what the 3 digit code on the back of the credit card is called. I know hes just looking but yours was on a "dating" site. That Id be questioning. My husband doesnt even know how to delete the history on the tablet or laptop. If I were you I would keep my guard up until he proves you otherwise. Good luck.
Me and my man have had this same issue before I got pregnant. I didn't say anything for awhile because I didn't want him to know I was onto him about it. Then me being me, I messaged every single one of those lil tramps and I said he was taken and not to ever message him again. The problem still existed, I flat out told him if he wanted those lil girls go ahead cuz the next time I see he has been on one of those sites (he was using airg) or anything like it me and him were done and he could pack his **** and leave. If I'm not good enough then go find someone who is. He's still here and no more stupid dating sites.
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