Tmi.......... pls help my bf keeps watching porn

[mrsohara]

hey ladys !!
my bf aint to good at showing affection and i keep finding him having been watching porn on his moble instead of spending time in bed with me

the searches are of compleate opposit of me
is it becoz i am gaining weight with pregnancy?
dont i do it for him anymore?
i dont no how to react as each time i have found this he says he loves me and dont no why he do it.......

i need real womens opinion as i dont no what to do next
my gut tells me the realtionship must be breaking down
and i feel like he must not love or care for how i feel

[ashkevin13]

Have u ever asked to watch it with him. Maybe he keeps it a secret because he feels he needs to. Personally i watch porn with my husband all the time.. We learned alot of positions. Lol and the other comment regarding scared he will hurtthe baby. He might my husband is. Maybe try plrasure uses other senses or objects..

[mrsohara]

tbh i would rather be on my own than be with a man who is not sexualy attracted to me or ao bored that porn is a daily need
when to souls are connected sex is extacy!!

[Seymone]

Same here,I use to get upset but really it's better because he is not cheating

[mrsohara]

with previous bfs i have did this in the past
but this time its like a big hidden thing
also exz have never needed to watch porn as i have kept them happy on a daily basis
this time it feels different
no cuddles at bed time nothing like that and when we have had sex there was no thought for hurting the baby

[mandi41389]

No i dont think its breaking down. My husband does it all the time. Ive just learned to accept it. I dont get mad n sometimes ill watch it with him. It doesnt hurt. Mayb he thinks hes gonna hurt u or the baby or somerhing.

[mrsohara]

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