Toddler

[patiti91]

I have a 2 year old toddler and i just had my baby girl yesterday so today we came home my son doesnt love me nomore i try to give him alot of attention but all he keeps doing is being apart from me now that the baby is here i feel like a bad mom i know i shouldnt but i do! I dont know what to do for him to know that i still love him no matter what and that i dont have a favorite i love both of them to death equally.. How did some of u mommies do it? Please help me

[lexi915]

Aww my nephew did that to me after I basically raised him but eventually he liked baby lol dont stress it so much u need ur rest right now when things settle down he'll come around :)

[patiti91]

Thanks girl i do try to make him part of everything but he tells me to pretty much take the baby back lol but i will try to give it time.. Is just so heart breakining

[lexi915]

aww girls you'll be okay believe me I have 3 boys and with every baby I brought home my other babies were always jealous just let them try to help as much as u can but be very careful at the same time. the simplest things will bring them joy from helping I would let the boys up the formula in the bottle or shake it up  bring me a pamper just a little things make them really really excited

[sdvargas]

Its just a phase honey. My daughter was the same way when I had my son. She told my mother I didn't love her anymore and she didn't want me. I cried too but believe me it will pass. Give him some time to adjust, let him help you with baby as much as he can and tell him what a great big brother he is. It will be ok :)

[JaidennsMommi]

Im scared my son is going to do the same thing :(

[patiti91]

Omg when my mom brought him over and i told him to come to me he said no and started crying it literally made me cry i was in tears i love him so much :(

[Beckyboo6023]

:( I have no advice, I'm scared this is gonna happen to me too. My son keeps telling me he has to leave when the baby comes. It breaks my heart.