Unhappy With My Husband.

Question

I been with my husband since high school days 8 years together and I have 2 boys with him I'm currently 22 weeks pregnant and blessed to even have the opportunity to get pregnant with my first girl I'm so blessed but ever since I got pregnant my husband been treating me like **** he calls me names and tells me he don't care if I leave him and every time I tell him why is he acting like that he tells me "Whatever you always act stupid!" I don't even know how I'm acting stupid and when he starts fighting with me he says I start it. Every day I'm crying everyday I feel down depressed and I honestly don't want to cry or hurt my baby girl because if I lose her I will never forgive him.. I'm tired of him but I don't leave him because I love him and want him to change and he hasn't and I'm pregnant and I don't want to be alone in my pregnancy expecially because is our first girl and I'm so in love with my baby but I feel unhappy with my husband and he is the only one acting so stupid with me and hurting me ...

BeautyHeartMaggie · Answer

I know is just so hard I feel alone sometimes because my kids love there dad and it hurts me so much because the way he treats me is way different as how he treats the kids but my pregnancy is been nothing but crying and depression because of him and I talk to him about it but he tells me he cares but he always acting so stupid with me and screaming everyday I don't know if it's because he works crazy hours or because I make him mad but honestly I don't know why would I make him mad when all I tell him is to please stop screaming ...

jazmanianlo · Answer

In my opinion, you should leave him. I understand that its hard, but clearly hes not valuing you the way you deserve. Your daughter will grow up with him settong a terrible example as to how a man should treat her when shes older. She'll hear the way he talks to you. Theres no way arouns it, thats abusive. You and your children deserve better. It sounds like you can create a more wholesome home without him. Best of luck in your decision.