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2113367 tn?1344979207

Vent !!!!

I hate my husband friend. I feel like punching him in the face. His the type of person that always want to be better then others and think he always correct. my husband is in the military and his friend too, we live right next door to his friend and when my husband is gone for weeks for training he takes me grocery shopping and am very thankful for that But his just the time of person that likes to joke around to much and im not a big fan of people joking around with me specially now with all my hormone going banana. I know i should relax and not take stuff so serious but i feel like killing him sometimes. Today he told me "i wish you would die", i was like you ******* serious im pregnant so you want your friends baby to die too..and he was like" yeah im sure your husband will be very happy if you did". I know he was joking around but that too much he reach a limit. i told him to stop playing with me cuz he was really pissing me off and he finally shut up. when my husband comes back home ill be sure to let him know to tell his friend to stop joking around with me or one day ima loose my mind and not think about there friendship .

Sorry for the long post im just really mad.
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Omg I am totally in the same boat my fiancés friend is sooo annoying he has no job and comes over for 15 hours out of the day on my fiancés day off and has the nerve to call me lazy cause I sleep a lot because I have a full time job and work nights . Takes everything I have to not let my hormones loose on him. He has no kids has never had anybody pregnant but swears he knows more about being pregnant than me. I really wish they would stop being friends but I don't say anything because that's his best friend. I can sense their friendship growing apart I think his friend is just jealous and feels like he's losing his friend, hence why he always takes pokes at me .
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2207540 tn?1338956718
Wtf! There's something seriously wrong with that guy! I'm sorry you have to put up with that and I hope your husband kicks his ***!!
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1346146 tn?1299360497
What a horrible thing to say. Are you sure he was joking?  I have never had anyone say that to me jokingly.  I would have your husband speak to him because his jokes are totally inappropriate.  Sorry u have to deal with that.
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He sounds like an immature child. My bf and I joke around a lot and that is just something you don't ever say to someone. I'm hormonal myself and I would have just blown up. Lol don't let some immature jerk get to you. He's not worth it
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Smh that is Horrible ! You should of smacked him , that's not funny at all !!!!
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Holy cow! That is not okay for him to say that joking or not, pregnant or not. I know men in the military can be a bit more crude and swear a bunch (my husband is in the army) but I dont think that military or not he shouldnt say stuff like that to anyone. Especially that they do all of those classes on suicide prevention, and harassment and stuff like that. I personally would have started crying just to make him feel bad. I hope your husband will talk to him about it and how disrespectful that is.
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1959722 tn?1338778115
I don't know how someone would think that's funny but yeah lame. You shouldn't have to deal with his crap. Men are dumb, dumb, dumb, dumb
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