Very frustrated

[mrscollins23]

My husband has always been a beer drinker but since we found out that we are expecting it seems he is doing it more. He used to skip days now he does it back to back to back. He knows how bad it frustrated me b4 we got pregnant so times that by 1000 now that I'm pregnant. I'm very frustrated!!!! If I say anything he says I'm b I t c h I n g...okay end vent

[HannahJohnson]

That's terrible! And that's definitely not something you should have to bring your baby home too! Im sorry, maybe you should talk to him. Maybe he needs AA.

[first_baby_21]

My boyfriend drinks every day too but I told him that if he was going to drink then he has to buy his beer and at the same time put money away for the baby and he agreed

[mrscollins23]

And considering I feel awful at night...headache, backache, bloated and slightly nauseated, cramps....it makes it ten times worse.

[mrscollins23]

Didn't know it would bleep my words out but basically he tends to call me bad names sometimes

[mrscollins23]

He drinks till a 12 pack some nights and like now drinks two 40 oz bottles and a 24 oz can and listening to David Allen Coe. Some nights he doesn't get that bad but drinks them kind of fast to get a good buzz. Some nights he gets sloppy and starts talking stupid crap or gets food everywhere when he eats. And now that I'm pregnant the smell of beer and cigarettes make me sick. I used to be a smoker but quit because  I'm pregnant. Some nights its okay but other nights not so much because I become a ***** and a *****....

[Anonymousabc]

I just give my husband the cold shoulder wgen he drinks so he says its not even worth it cause he cant relax or have fun when im being all blah. I know thats not really the "mature" thing to do but my husbands the same way we cant talk about it without him getting mad so its just easier for him too read my body language.  I dont like drinking period i feel like especially if he NEEDS it to relax then their are bigger problems anyways.

My opinion.  Hope it helps!

[bkiddo35]

Ok, but does he drink till he gets wasted or its just a couple to relax? my hubby is a beer drinker too, I used to be one as well and I see no big deal as long as your partner gets sober...