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Soo nervous

So I took a test last night and I checked it in like 2 minutes , it sed no so I put it back in the box.. I took one this morning and it said positive.. I just pulled the obe out from last night as nd it says positive now. So im assuming I am prego but I am so nervous. Im only 20 years old. Me and my boyfriend have been off and on for 4 years now. But im not sure if hes ready for this and im not sure if I want him to be my babys father. Im so confused I dont even know wat to think.
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3171529 tn?1348199244
you will not be stupid for having his baby because of the way hes choosing to live his life right now. even if he doesnt man up eventually; at the end of the day, thats your baby and i promise you the moment u hold your child for the first time, you will not regret it, nor will you care about anything else but being the best mommy you can be. but i hope for the babys sake he becomes the father he needs to be...good luck :)
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3185867 tn?1348434443
alot of men man up and get responsible when they know they have a little one comming. my fiancee used to drink with a couple of his buddies every weekend. now he hasnt left the house
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Yea I just took another test right now and it said ya. Im just so scared I guess.. I feel as if im guna be stupid having his baby wen hes livibg his life so stupid right now. I hope he will change for the baby but who knows ;(
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2094653 tn?1334267573
Mine did the same but the line was so faint with the 1st test I mis read it. I took.a 2nd test 3days later an a pos showed up but faint darker than the 1st test I went an looked @ 1st test an pos it was I made a Dr appt an they confirmed that I was. So in my opinion ima.say ya u r Prego.
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583196 tn?1429221155
yesterdays test is invalid after 15 minutes, don't go by it but by the new test you took. go see your doctor to be sure and go from there.
when it comes to relationships and children, they are ever changing and growing. please try not to judge your boyfriend as a parent until there is a little one here for you to see for yourself how he will be. even if he isn't 'ready' he is still the father and you shouldn't take the opportunity of knowing their father away from him or her.
talk to your boyfriend about it, it might bring you closer together as a couple.
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