Emotional issues

[boogiefly]

Hello ladies.  My husband has told me that recently, I have been a pain to live with.  He said I come home and have an attitude towards him.  I don't see that I am doing this at all.  All I say is hi. And if he is doing something, or watching tv, i just ask him, "what are you doing?".  He said it sounds pushy and all like I am mad at him.  Could it be that my hormones have taken over and I sound bitchy?  Or is he having sympathy pains?  I don't want him to hate me.  I had thought nothing was wrong and then yesterday he said I was taking stuff out on him.  All I was doing was talking to him about something to do with the baby,and he got super mad and said I was the one who was acting weird. Anyway, any tips on not being a jerk when you are pregnant? Thanks.

[kerryann123]

we pregnant girls can sometimes get moody but we fail to realize that the daddy also goes to changes...try to talk to him and open with hun i just really want to talk to you about how you feel ......sometimes dad can feel alot of pressure and also feel left out

[rachyrou]

Did he behave like this before you were pregnant? Is he happy about the pregnancy?

[boogiefly]

He only acted like this when he was stressed. He is happy about the pregnancy. He said he can't wait to be a dad.

[crstl11]

When I was pregnant with my first baby I was very mean and didn't realize it till I had her. I started thinking one day about how I was and I apologized I hope this time I am not like that cause I felt bad when I saw how I was for myself. My husband never said much he just overlooked it. I don't see how...haha

[having_twins]

It might be more him then you. He might be stressed and feeling left out. I'm close to the end of my pregnancy and my husband has become very stressed and werid. Maybe make a little extra time for the two of you.

[zaharahnin]

Tell ur husband to understand what ur going thru. My husband is just funny and just laughs at me when I'm grouchy cos he understands the emotional changes. When he laughs, I get more irritated. But later I'd be ok. :) do some fun stuffs together.

[boogiefly]

Well he is working (like me) and also trying to start his own business, AND I am pregnant and its our first.  We weren't expecting this to happen.  I was told I couldn't get pregnant in December and then POOF, I became pregnant in March.  But he is still happy and says he can't wait to be a dad.  He is all moody but says its me.  I don't know what to think.  I got told I needed to retake my glucose test, and I was scared and upset, so I was just talking to him about it, and he suddenly got really upset and told me to stop yelling at him.  I may have been talking a little loud, but he had the TV up loud, so I think he kind of zoned in and out of my talking and thought I was yelling.  Not sure.