Does anyone else feel this way? For the last few weeks I have felt like having sex, and when I do I am not with my boyfriend, so I try to think "well, maybe I will be that much more excited when I see him." But when we are finally at that point I just loose it and can't finish. He gets really disappointed, and so do I. I want to be in the moment, but I just don't enjoy it that much lately. Any tips on how to just set my mind to feel more sexual and be more in the mood? (During) I feel so distracted.