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not feeling sexual

Does anyone else feel this way? For the last few weeks I have felt like having sex, and when I do I am not with my boyfriend, so I try to think "well, maybe I will be that much more excited when I see him." But when we are finally at that point I just loose it and can't finish. He gets really disappointed, and so do I. I want to be in the moment, but I just don't enjoy it that much lately. Any tips on how to just set my mind to feel more sexual and be more in the mood? (During) I feel so distracted.
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Im on the same boat. My parter is often on the mood. I would really love to complu but it seems like my body wont allow me. If see freakin lazy and it hurts down there. There were time that we're on the middle of the action then i just suddenly lose focus. Dont know why. Try to look at his eyes, kiss him, whisper sexy words (sorry TMI), try to extend the 4play (sorry TMI). I did those oftentimes but it really depends on how my body and mood cooperates. Hope it will help you a bit(:
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Me too! Lol. When your in the mood it wont hurt to pleasure yourself and get your satisfaction in the moment. And just maybe when your actually with him the feeling will come back. Dont let the anxiety build up, itll eventually go away. Do what you have to do at that moment then when the time comes the feeling will be there and you'll get yours ;) lol. Have fun
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