baby shower

[kay0912]

Has anyone not really wanted a baby shower but the father does & he wants to invite all of his exes

[LaurenMH]

Have you talked to him about how you feel? Or is he the kind that wont settle for anything less than getting his way. Cuz I wouldn't stand for his exs coming to celebrate my pregnancy when they probably are just gonna act happy and friendly then as soon as they leave just run their mouths.

[LaurenMH]

Right now im in west tx in tornado alley so im about 10hrs from corpus its quite a move lol but my mom has been living on the island for a while and says its alot better than where I am the cost of living is lower, corpus has great jobs and the island school is way better than the ones here.

[kay0912]

He's knows a lot more females than them he's a dog

[RoopStetter]

Oh. I'm about 2 hours from Galveston so you are pretty far. But corpus is gorgeous and my mom grew up there. She loved it.

[LaurenMH]

We are looking for a place in port aransas corpus or north padre.

[RoopStetter]

@lauren where in Texas are u moving?

[lady1876]

I wouldbt be comfy with that and d thought of taking gifts from them not knowing is they have bad intentions...some people are mean and evil...but then again it could just mean he wants to brag which is good. But am funny when.it comes to taking gifts from his ex

[RoopStetter]

I communicate with my ex boyfriends. We are totally civil and my husbands fine with it. They come over and hang out with us when they come through my town and its fine. Some people have a good friendly relationship with their exes. Maybe he wants to throw you a baby shower and the only girls he knows are his exes. Maybe he does just want to show you off. If you don't want a shower that's fine but if you don't want a shower because your boyfriend wants to invite his exes then talk to him about it and ask him why he wants them to come. Boys are clueless and he probably doesn't even know that its that big of a deal to you.

[LaurenMH]

I wouldn't let my husband invite his exs just like he wouldn't let me invite mine. But we both have nothing to do with our exs no contact at all all of his live in Florida anyways we are in Texas he moved here a year ago to be with me(: we aren't having a baby shower though cuz we are moving to the Texas coast the only ppl I know there is my mom her husband and his 3 daughters.

[GordonBaby]

...........no. Just no.

[katngary143]

Woah what sorry ? Omg this post caught me off guard..I mean I think thats kinda immature and ridiculous like why does he need or want to communicate with his xgfs kinda strange in a way I mean if I had a baby shower or didnt I would be happy either way but hey u cant pass up free gifts lol

[BabyGirl7778]

Well Maybe he just wants to show you Off? There are two ways to look at it, either he wanted to show.you off or he wants to **** you off....... That being said I would have mixed feelings if my BD wanted to invite his exs, I would be Pissed off he's trying to invite them especially if your not cool with them and don't like that he still talks to them, also I would feel Happy cause I get to be like that's right you had your chance ladies now it's my turn and I am giving him a baby so you are No longer a threat or concern........ Just depends on if you are comfortable with him talking to his exes or not, but ultimately it's up to you if you want the baby shower or not, I mean he can throw one but if you don't go to it I don't think it's considered a Baby Shower it's more like a gathering to give Baby Gifts and Hang out