babysitting

[carmenmaldonao94]

Ughhh i have to tell someone but i just want to pull my hair out because I'm babysitting a 5month baby boy and a 2yr old boy. Being pregnant i have no patience. Before i would be able to babysit like nothing but now I'm just like fml. I had to babysit them last night and the kids mom said they fall asleep easy well she lied i was up all night with the baby. I hope I'm not like that with my own child has anyone gone through this. And why am i so impatient with these kids and feeling like this oh and by the way I'm having a girl can this be why I'm acting like this...?

I haven't told anyone because i don't want them to judge me talking **** to me because i can't even take care of these baby boys and I'm pregnant.... :((
I dont like being pregnant i have so many mixed emotions

[carmenmaldonao94]

Well its day two the reason i have to babysit because I'm just trying to help a friend out by babysitting plus she's staying here too and the spoiled 2yr old kept crying last night and she wasn't doing anything to get him to go to sleep i know my husband was getting pissed off because i was myself. Than he wouldn't stop crying still i got up grabbed his bottle n gave him milk than tried to go back to sleep n this little boy kept crying than i told his mom he needs a diaper change i think that's y he's crying n she just keeps getting ready for work. Than my husband gets up yells for me to go grab him than i take him to change him and all she says is hey well I'm leaving.....  

I'm pissed like really wtf man i haven't talk to my husbanD aabout this i dont even know what he's going to say... and this little boy crys and crys i try feeding him he doesn't eat and crys i have need dealt with a child like this idk what to do.... any advice ladys?

[Raelyn1992]

I had the same problem. Before I found out I was pregnant I was snapping at every little thing my niece and nephew did and I would feel so bad I would walk away and just cry because I practically raised them so I had a strong bond with both of them but, than when I found out and it kinda made sense. I still feel bad for yelling at them all the time.

[mommytobe_dec2014_]

I'm a babysitter and I'm 32w 3d I am super impatient too I can't wait till I have my baby girl so I can be done sitting...I watch a 3yr old and 17 month old they wine and cry to much and I just want a nap lol

[specialmom]

It IS really hard to be a parent.  There were nights in which I felt I 'might' be going a tiny bit insane.  I was like in my head screaming 'go to sleep!!!!!' while rocking my baby.  Some handle it better than others.  You do hear of some parents snapping and having a really hard time dealing with it.  If that happens, you just need to make sure to ask for help.  Parenting can be overwhelming.  Knowing when you are maybe feeling overwhelmed is so important to call your mom or a friend and just saying "I need a break".  Hang in there.  peace

[carmenmaldonao94]

Thank y'all for understanding i don't mind babysitting but the 2yr old crys for everything its crazy he crys more than the baby and I'm like what the heck lol

[ftm502]

It's okay my patience has been short with pregnancy also. Just take a deep breath and try and relax.

[browneyes_Maria_18]

I was feeling the same way but I told the kids mom  could she understood I would take 5 kids to school and I had to push the doulble stroller with 3 kids in it the kids the would stay with me would cry for any reason I couldn't handle it so maybe talk to  there mom about it ...... Im having a girl too lol

[carimae]

Its okay girl when it's ur own kid it's totally different. Its still frustrating as hell but not as bad when it's your baby. You got this, and never be afraid to ask for help.