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6658361 tn?1384717351

been wanting to commit suicide.

I want my baby to go to heaven cause I'm scared for him to be on this earth.. I'm not happy with my life at all my boyfriend puts his hands on me we been together for 7 years I have no family or friends I don't know What else to do. Did anyone feel like this during pregnancy
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6838565 tn?1402381858
Your baby is your family ... and your are his family he beeds you just like u need your family
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You arent alone! I have a good husband and lovely daughter and i too have felt suicidal due to my mental illness. You need to be strong and leave that guy! It is not easy. But with the will power you can have a great happy life with your baby. Good luck. Use resources around you. You have loads of women here ready to support you!
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I know it's hard to be in an abusive relationship and even harder to get out. Remember you are beautiful, smart, intelligent, amazing, and strong!  Seek counseling immediately. Please not only for your baby but for your self. You deserve happiness. You can over come this I had to as well. , It was the hardest thing to do in my life but I realized that once I got out of the relationship it was really him who made me depressed. He made me feel worthless and it wasn't true and it's not true for you. Hey help there are free hotlines you can call for abused women. You can do this get help so you can appreciate your life and your baby's. God never puts More on your plate than you can handle. You can get out of that situation.
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Don't let that pathetic man win!
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No u have ure whole life ahead of u n I promise that baby will give u soo much strength n love that nobody else can. That baby will lighten up ure darkest days.. But u need to look for help.. Leave that guy, u deserve better u don't have to stay. Look around or ask ure doctor if he knows any pregnancy crisis centers or places that can help u escape n help get u on ure feet. bcz u can do this u can be a single mother n suceed remember both u baby deserve to be happy together enjoying wat life can offer
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If you call the police and explain your situation I'm sure they would know where you could go and help you get there.  Don't bring your baby into an abusive home hun. You are are worth so much more than this! I know it's hard but you need to reach out to someone who can really help you. I'll pray for you.
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do you have a way of getting anywhere ? Reliable transportation to a safer place?
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You are beautiful and worthy in gods eyes, and if you have Noone you have both god and your child forevermore. I'm not a bible thumper, and rarely attend church but reading this hurt me inside because I just want to hug and tell you that you will be ok even though it feels like you won't be.... Your child needs you, and you have done great thus far... Don't allow such negative things cloud your goal to be the best mommy for that child... If you must leave him, your never alone. Women all over the world go through similiar if not the same things everyday. Be strong sweets... I'm praying for you....
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Dont do it hunny! Seek help asap! God loves you so much that he sent his only son to die for us. God favored you and sent you that blessing. You are here for a purpouse and it is to be an amazing momma. I know you feel alone but theres alot of help out there for women. You are precious, you are treasured and you are valued and you are His.
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6786533 tn?1384793808
God wouldnt put more on you than you can bare! Yu will be a great mother!
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5426152 tn?1382129604
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You should go to the hospital hun. These are scary thoughts and there are people there who know how to help you. Don't be embarassed or ashmed to admit you need help. The fact that you are telling us ladies how you feel is great. The more you talk the better.
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5555127 tn?1373562243
You should seek help immediately.  You should try and reach a domestic violence center and should speak to your doctor about how your feeling.
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2170635 tn?1357911686
No put i would tell ur doctor on how u feel they be abole to help you in the mean time stay disstractet try get incontact with ur family talk to them
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Yes I did I feel that you should leave its what's best for the baby I had these thoughts and feelings think of your child as your best friend and a new part of family and that you won't be alone its not about you anymore its about your baby
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