bf/hid family problems

[Kaylz101]

My partners family have hated me simce I found out I was pregnant x now im on blood thinning injections and my partner s father calls just as hes bout to do it so he sent an automated txt message back saying im busy atm ill call u straight back x so wen hes done he calls his father and his step brother answers giving him attitude x they hang up n his step brother txt him back and called him names basically x so my partner calls his father and his father defends hid step brother and hangs up on my partner x now I ask my partner how he feels and he says his famoly dont care which I understand he feels like that as his famoly dont really want anything to do wiv him since I came into his life x but to try and lighten the spirt I said well I love u n he replies well at least u got ur family x I nw hes upset but is that anyway to treat me and talk to me? X im 15weeks pregnant anf had several complications and suffer with anxiety x im really upset and stressed to think he could turn on mr like that x I wish I could help him but the only way to do that is to leave him but now I feel like everytime him and his dad argue he takes it out on me x and I feel he blames me for the trouble he had wiv his father x idk wa to do x ive tryed to b patient and understamd but he just verbally lashes out on me x

[1st_time_momma]

I honestly don't think he was taking it out on u just upset cuz he weeks abandoned by his family

[Kaylz101]

Ive tryed but last time they said to me the baby will be fuked in yhr hrad like me and hung up on me x apart from that his dads blocked all our numbrrs untill it suits him now :( I hate him not getting alomg wiv them but unless I leave n had my baby over to his dad nothing will change :'( x

[SoConfusedRightNow]

I'm kinda in the same boat except everything happened before I got pregnant. When we got together he had nothing to do with his family bur I pushed him to see them again because they are his family.. After a few months I started receiving text messages and phone calls of abuse from them.. his mother and older sister even wentas far as to come in to my work and abuse me. Its been 6 months since we've spoken to them because they told him they want nothing to do with him until he leaves me. He's chosen to stay with me.. now that im pregnant its really hard.. he doesn't believe his family has any right to be in our childs life and neither do I but im scared it'll cause more problems..

it's a really hard thing to do but if you are still on talking terms with his family I'd suggest maybe trying to talk to them and find out what the problem is??