break up.

[Rosa20]

ok so girls i need some advice i dont know what to do! This is not pregnancy related but i figured you are the girls to talk to sence your the ones i share everything with! My fiance and i jut got into a fight and i told him to leave an never come back...i know its all my fault that he left and i probably brought it on myself by telling him to leave but he packed all his stuff and i dont think hes coming back!! Idont know why i told him to leave i love him sooo much hes my world! I cant live without him and now i dont know what to do..im so upset please give me some advice!!! ANYTHING!!

[adawning4]

When I was pregnant with my daughter (1st baby), my husband and I got into a big fight he took everything that was his and I helped him put it in his car! I dont even remember WHY we were fighting! But the point to my story is I waited about 2 hrs and I called him and was crying and told him I didnt mean it I love him and I want him to come home, and hung up! The next morning at 4:30 am he was there knocking on the door and we had a huge tell all and here we are 4 years later! By the way this was 2 weeks before my due date.... Men do take things literally! You should tell him that your sorry and you love him and want him home and when he's ready your gonna be there, But you can do it without him! Hope everything works out for you! Good luck on the baby also!

[Rosa20]

thank you....i hope your right! I would hate to be pregnant and alone the second time around...i know people say things they dont mean when there mad..im really good at it...i told him when he called that i was sorry  and that i didnt mean it..he said whatever yes you did..so he is still upset..im thinkin in the morning he might be cooled off a bit sleeping on it...but he has said to me befoer that he cant sleep without me..maby that will bring him back..lol..i really hope so and thanx again

[branjay]

Well I must stay try and stay stress free, cause if u are pregnant stress will not be good for the baby. He most definitely misses u or he wouldn't have called. You both were just upset at the moment, but trust me he will be back before u know it....just stay calm and try not to upset yourself....but it sounds like things are going to be okay

[Rosa20]

Thank you soo much...that makes me feel so much better...he called me about an hour ago and i was like why are you calling me and hes like see what your up to...i was like oh do you miss me and he said no not really ...but him phoning just to see what im up to got to be a ood sign right!!! I means he must be thinking about me right! Oh mi...men are so confusing!! lol...i Am nervous that im pregnant and i think this might be the month! We have been trying fr ten months now and nothing but im late and i have been throwing up sence we got into a fight..not sure if its pregnancy related or stress related but i hopin its pregnancy..lol...he may be gone but now that he called i kinda got a feeling no matter how long it takes hes going to come back..We have had a big fight like this before..im from newfoundlan and so is he but we were in ontario together and we broke up..i came home outta it and he followed me three weeks later...I dont know i thought this time it was it but now that he called i have a little bit of hope..i should hope right...or shouldnt i? I dont know if any of that just made sence to you but more advie if possible thanx!!

[branjay]

As hard as this sounds sometimes the best thing to do is let him cool off. When men are upset they like to be left alone and not nagged. I know you are anxious to tell him that u are sorry and how u feel, but give him a lil space right now. That is the best thing u acan do for him at this time. Trust me, me and my fiance have been through many of fights, but once I let him cool down we always are able to talk with a clear mind. Because trust me u dont want him to talk out of anger. It will be okay, he loved u enough to ask u to marry him and one lil argument is not going to make him leave forever

[Rosa20]

he packed everything and i went over and i tried talking to him i made sure he knew that i was sorry and i didnt maen what i said and that i love him very much and that hes my world....he didnt want to talk to me at all and says he dont want to talk either!! i dont know what to do ...i just love him sooo ver y very much...how can i make him understand that i love him and that i didnt mean it..i want him to stay..any ideas on how i can get him to stay!!???

[LosingMyMindInGA]

do you have someone that can take you over there?  

Did he pack ALL of his things or just what he'd need for a little while? If he still have things there he'll be back by eventually

[Rosa20]

thanx a bunch girlies...too bad i cant reach him at the moment!! He dosent have a cell i know where he is but he got the car!!

[LosingMyMindInGA]

Men take things literally...he may very well have not WANTED to leave.  Suck it up and call him or go see him.  Tell him how sorry you are, that you never really MEANT for him to leave it was just said in the heat of the argument.  Then see where it goes from there.

[missyg477]

He probably feels the same way.  If u really want him back then tell him.  Maybe now that both of you have had time to cool off you can talk about why you were arguing.

[Atia_Julii]

Yes, you can live without him.  But if you don't want to, then tell him.

[chitten]

If you love him and regret it - Tell him.

I know itl maybe hurt to swallow your pride but how would you feel if the last time you saw him was the last time you EVER saw him???

There is no other advice you need girl :)

Wish it was that simple for me.................... :(

[Rosa20]

PLEASE ANYBODY!!!!