bye bye boyfriend?

[saw1991]

My boyfriend and i have been together for just over a year now, im 24w2days. He was good in the beginning of the pregnancy and now he has become sonewhat lazy? Doesnt want to feel baby move or he thinks im being over dramatic when i say it hurts to breathe or my back really hurts. Its like hes lost interest. Im currently looking after my mom, i was when we started dating as well. She has stage 4 lung cancer and at times its rough but a lot of his issues come from me looking after her. He likes my mom and i will eventually lose her and he doesnt seem to think the situation is that bad....any ideas?

[mamaof4410]

Its more than likely the fact that everything is going to change. He will not be the center of attention anymore and that can take some getting used to. We have 4 kids (going on 5) and I always make it a point to spend time with my husband, even if its a shower together. Just tell him how your feeling and maybe it will open his eyes. Best of luck to you.

[zaira92]

Im planning on leaving my bf we been together for 3 years he just wont man up

[mummytwobee]

Well sometimes its best to just go somewhere else to show him you really mean business! My ex wouldnt smarten up no matter what i did so i had to kick him out of my life! If a guy rather lose you then man up and help then he isnt really worth it.. your having his baby he has no right to act that way.

[saw1991]

Ive been trying my best to deal with his crap but im about to the end of my rope

[mummytwobee]

Just tell him how you feel and to smarten up. My ex didnt smarten up so i left.

[saw1991]

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