cheated on and pregnant ):

[kaylamae1107]

So my boyfriend of a year and a half cheated on me a couple fays ago...when i found out i was heartbroken. Especially considering im 8 months pregnant. I have that gut feeling he is going to come back because the reason why he did everything he did was because he was fed up with my mom. I still love him to death and its hard to let go. I just need some inspiration from you mommas. Have any of you ladies been through this and the turnout was good in the end ?

[kaylamae1107]

And the fact that him and my mom didnt get along is no excuse to cheat..u guys are right. He also would say that im not going to "tie him down"

[kaylamae1107]

You guys are right. He is very immature and has alot of growing uo to do. The fact that he did this to me while pregnant ***** even more. And btw he already has a new girlfriend...

[monie2]

^^^^^^ ture yu deserve so much better

[diachong]

Not liking your mom is not a reason to cheat, that's a lame excuse. I'm sorry you're going through this. Honestly any man that would cheat on his woman while pregnant is immature and not worth the heartache. You deserve better than that because that behavior is disgusting and shows he cares more about himself than he does you or his baby

[abcde12344]

Just because he doesn't like your mum that's no excuse to Cheat

[dallana]

I've been there me and my husband have a 9 month old and he left when she was 3 months I had to be mommy and daddy for 4 months f had found out he had gotten a girlfriend a week after we had broke up they broke up and I found out I was pregnant a month before we had broken up and I didn't tell him becuz we barely had contact he was to busy with his girl then his daughter when they had broken up a couple weeks later he texted me out a the knowere and said how I was doing of course I got surprised he was being awfly nice and said he missed and loved me and he was sorry he felt stupid for leaving that's when I told hi I was pregnant and he said its not mine so he has doubt's its his baby BT me and him are together and I've told him there's nothing to worry about if he trust me there shouldn't be any doubt's its been hard for us because he sometimes doesn't want to deal with the stress there is no perfect marriage you can't always have a happy ending the struggle is always going to be there just depends on how you deal with it

[RheaAnn2]

I haven't been cheated on while pregnant, but my previous relationship we had ALOT of problems, and he told me he wanted to cheat on me. Don't say he did just wanted to. I broke up with him. We tried to work it out, but it was over. I could never get over that. Now I understand that you are having a child with him and if you feel its the right decision to get back with him then you do what you have to do. But do not let him come up with excuses of why! It is no one else's fault but his own. If you stay with him, he will have to get over what ever is going on with your mom, and you will have to move past the cheating to make it work. I pray you make whatever decision is right for you and your baby. That's what's important.

[carols94]

Hes using that as a reason. No man who truly loves his woman would cheat. There's always something more to him cheating. I was cheated on at 6 months. From my experience from then and the past is the guy wants a woman their comfortable with while they get their needs filled by someone else. Its hard to take back a cheater you constantly think when he leaves, if he's gone to long, or on the phone or acting weird if hes cheating again. Theres no more comfort and trust in the relationship. And its the lowest of the low to cheat on a woman caring your child.

[Taili2010]

Even If He hates Ur mom there's No reason to cheat on u Especially When Ur carrying his child. You deserve way better Then That and bad feelings towards Ur mom shouldn't dictate The way He treats YOU. He sounds like He's got alot of growing up to do. I know what that feels like to be cheated on and it really *****. Ive had one ******* boyfriend after the other and that includes the father of my 4 year old and the baby im carrying now which im 37 weeks. But forget him! I got back with my ex that ive remained friends with for about 7 years and he treats me like a queen and both my girls like the two little princesses they are! Know your worth and accept nothing less. U do that for u and ur child and i promise u will be very happy and treated with respect. With time u will learn that there is someone better and hes no good for u. Unless he grows up and drastically changes. But dont count on that because sometimes thats just not the way it happens.

[newmommy213]

My baby's father was acting like he wanted to be with me and nobody else at first then he got super distant n we didn't talk for a month then I found out he was dating some new girl I was devastated but I had to focus on my pregnancy and so that's what I've done. Now he's not dating the girl but is talking to someone new and constantly  tells me that he's gonna come see me and then he never shows up :/ just try ans think about the situation you know it a lot better than anyone else