cheating..

[kareenxoxo]

So I found out two days ago my boyfriend was cheating on me with another girl I didn't know till one of my friends told me. They go to school together and it seriously broke me heart. How he can possibly be doing that behind my back, I live with him and I've noticed he would come home and not even kiss me. He didn't want to have sex with anymore, that's when I started to noticed the difference in him. I know stressing out isn't good for my baby but I just don't know how to get over it.. I'm still with him he prosime he would change and to never speak a word to that girl. I did it for the sake of my son I want him to have a father in his life, but he's unfaithfulness is killing me inside.  I can't seem to stop thinking of it and cry of it.. anyone have any opinions in what I can do to feel better...

[1stTimeeMommy23]

I know it's hard and u wanna stay because of the baby but my best advice to u is just leave him it's not healthy 2 stay just cause the baby..even if u leave he can still be apart of the baby's life if u choose...if u stay ur just gonna be upset all the time & things will never be the same because u will always have that girl in the back of ur mind & I'm sure u'll never trust him again & things will just keep going downhill...just leave him & get support from ur family so that u can heal in a healthy way & don't let it get 2 u..it's his loss hun...if he was able 2 do all that even tho he was with u & knew he had a baby on the way he'll do it again..I'm srry ur going thru this good luck

[shannonanderic]

From experience I have an 18 month old daughter and my ex promised an promised but it got worst they just find better ways to hide it that's all they do! I would leave so the baby isn't in the middle of it when it actually does happen an u split up bring it into a loving caring world where you will be happy an not fighting an hurt! I wish it would have listened to everyone cause now her dad cheated on me more than 20 times and when she was 6 months he went to prison he lived with me and everything now I met the most wonderful man that treats her like his own and takes good care of us and we are expecting another! I couldn't be more happier with out that guy best thing that ever happen was leaving him! He will just hurt you more an your son should grow up watching that once a cheater always a cheater!