I don't care about material things either. I never get a thing for Valentine's Day, Birthday ir Christmas. That wasn't the point I was trying to make. The baby's father should not buy Valentine's things for another lady when the lady who is pregnant with his child is right there beside him. I know it is her birthday and all. Whatever my birthday was in May. I didn't get a Happy Birthday or anything. Didn't bother me. Never does. Why would any father to be be so disrespectful and make a big deal about soneone else and go out of his way and get all this stuff for her and nit even say Happy Valentine's Day to the lady who is pregnant with his child. The lady that took care of him when he was jobless for almost a year. That was what my rant was about.
Materialistic things are crap! I didn't get anything either. But ya know what, I woke up from a nap today and my husband finished our son's nursery and told me to go do something for myself tomorrow. I did a scavenger hunt for him in our house, leading to brownies and lingerie
He really made me feel fuc.king cheap today.
Yikes Tanya, that ***** :(
Men can be jerks sometimes right i'm sorry hun maybe he forgot what today was and then he saw u got him stuff he was probably oh poop i'm a d@#k lol they got a totally different way of thinking sometimes
I took mine out for lunch and paid for everything. His female friend bday is today and he bought her all kinds of stuff. When he realized that I looked very annoyed. He thenn asked me in a very rude tone. Do you want one too? . I buy him surprises quite often for no reasons at all. I get slack. I said Happy Valentine's Day to him when I got home this morning from work and his reply was whatever. He just started back to work three weeks ago. Before that he got fired from two jobs and quit the rest. He's been bit.ching about work. I work nights and have never been fired and only quit one job. I quit only because I moved provinces. This is my Valentine's Day Vent.
I disagree with pp. He should WANT to do things for you. Communication is everything, talk to him and tell him how this made you feel. He may really be oblivious. Also, you gotta learn to spell "chocolate" if you want them ;) jk
Next time buy yourself something REALLY nice. If he sees that you can make yourself Happy without depending on him, he might try to step up and do the same. But you have to also resist the urge to buy him anything. Take care of your needs and you won't have to worry about being disappointed.
I would also doe for a box of chocolates right now lol
Its okay. My BD has t spoken to me in like 3 days. For no reason. .just stopped talking to me. He should of gotten you something but at least he's there when it counts :)