daddy issues :/

[Baby2mommy]

So I was wondering ........if ur in ur third trimester can stress cause u to lose baby?? I'm already under enough n come to find out tonight my so called dad which is more like a sperm donor is coming into town tomorrow n is stayin with us for a couple of days!! OK I found him 2 yes ago n he has hardly had any contact with me or his grandson. He only talks to my husband!!! But u know what I feel as though its only fare if things get out of hand for me to calmly tell him he needs to find other arrangements. He hasn't talked to me in 6 months......he comes around only once or twice a yr! Sry I know that's not entirely pregnancy related but I should have no problems with baby cuz of stress being added.....right??

[GordonBaby]

good : )

[Baby2mommy]

Thank u. I was worried about having him over at all but that makes total sense. But my husband n I actually had a good day yesterday n fell asleep in each others arms so I'm feeling good! So I plan on this being a good day!

[GordonBaby]

I'm sure non of us endure a stress free pregnancy...I know I haven't thus far, but over stressing isn't good while your not pregnant, so I cant imagine it being any different while pregnant. I think your right, if it becomes overbearing, ask him to find another place. I also think as your father, he should fill you in as well and not just your husband. Don't let him stress you too much hun, he clearly isn't an everyday factor and regardless of the past should not be able to bring you down.