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vennnttt!!

So my boyfriend n I fight all the time now that i'm pregnant. we live together with our 2 year old daughter, and we just moved. He doesn't work, yet I have to take my 2 year old with me to work every day because he wants to be hunting, sleeping and hanging with friends. He gets mass when I get on his butt about a job, because I won't be able to work the last few Weeks of my pregnancy or for a few Weeks after. and every time we fight I get hormonal and cry, so then he calls me a crazy b*****. Which isn't fair to me!! I am sorry to vent I just wish he understood how hard it is to be a full time mommy + full time worker + preggers + the one who cooks + cleans and cares for our family and unpacks everything from the move and so on... Grrrrrrr lol
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You need to get a solution to this quickly. Give him an ultimatum and a time limit and stick to it, if he doesn't change get rid. Not only is it unfair on you but it is setting a really bad example for your children. Don't let your daughter think that it is ok for a man to treat her like that! I hope for your sake that he changes but if he doesn't then getting rid of him will ease your stress as you will have one less person to look after!
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Obviously your doing EVERYTHING on your own!!!! So therefore u need to give him a ULTIMATUM because that's ridiculous there no way you should be the only way working and he's not watching your.daughter while you work NO U TELL HIM TO GET HIS LAZY *** UP n find a job and in the mean time he needs to b cleaning and caring for the child while you work BE A MAN UGH U JUST RAISED MY BLOOD PRESSURE!!! Seems your stressing and that's not healthy for you At all!! Either fix the situation or eliminate your PROBLEM (HIM)!!!! And tell him he the one CREATED THE CRAZY *****!!!! Goodluck
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Sounds like you're dating an immature looser. Sorry to be so blunt, but maybe you should reconsider being with this tool.
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