don't know what to do

[Kirsten_48]

I'm 24 weeks and my boyfriend has been very mean and distant lately. He wasn't like that at the beginning but has gradually gotten worse. He hasn't paid for anything for the baby and just acts like it's not happening. He calls me awful names all the time and just freaks out. I don't know if I should keep trying with him or just let him go. I keep going it'll pass and get better but it's only getting worse. Help please.

[lilalila23]

Why be in a toxic relationship.? And i mean toxic because the way he is treating you now..
What makes you think when your baby is born it will be different. I say you leave him for a while to see if he will step up and if he doesnt well youll have your answer

[Kirsten_48]

It's the same as both you guys. I feel line it's just a big waste of time but I don't want to be another split up family. Thanks for your help!

[19Fernanda]

Something always has to happen everytime we make plans to spend time together. I'm at the point of giving up on us. Its so stressful having to worry about what he might be doing all the time. I hope things will get better with you guys. :)

[miracle_mommy2014]

I doubt it will pass. Its probably just going to get worse. And when your baby gets here you dont want it around that. Maybe try to talk to him and tell him to knock it off....and if he doesnt....leave him and co parent your child the best you can. If he has no interest in being there for the baby....at least you tried. Focus on being the best momma you can be.

[19Fernanda]

To Kirsten_48 I understand you in a different way me n my boyfriend lost our place 2 months ago n now that he has a job it seems like his not traying hard enough to get us a new one. I am also 24 weeks pregnant n we already have a 4 year old daughter. Im leaving with my mom n him at his dads wich is 25 min or so away from each other n hardley see him.