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I am a 21year old ftm and I have no idea what I'm doing. I love my bf and I can't picture my life without him but he has three kids older than me and I just found out that none of them what anything to do with me or our baby. I have been with him for three years. My family wants me to move with them but that's 17 hrs away. I don't want to take the child from him but most of the time he says he don't want it anyways. I just want my baby to have family and I don't think its what is going to happen with my bfs family. I can't deal with all the stress I have already been on the hospital once with what they called a threatened miscarriage due to stress. I NEED ADVICE PLEASE
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Thank you I'm just so upset
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Just stay calm. Do whatever you feel in your heart is best for you and your baby. If that's moving back with your family, then that is what you do. You need to be surrounded by support not people who will tear you down. Im having an issue with the people in my life surrounding my pregnancy as well. Just remember that baby needs you to be strong and he/she is your first priority.
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